"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it possible to widen your biceps? I have slight body dismorphic disorder(I think) and I can't hlep but notice how thin my biceps look. Is there anything I can do about this?

BDO is like when someone has a eating disorder. They look like they came out of a concentration camp, and they still think they are really fat. I'm the opposite. I think I'm too skinny. I realize this so its hard to really trust my own feelings about my body.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You can't arbitrarily decide which way the muscle will grow. But obviously, working your bicep, will inevitably lead to a thicker arm..from all angles.
 

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There are 2 muscles that compose the Bicep (hince the 'Bi') and you are probably only working one of them by doing palm-up curls. To work the other head of the bicep, do curls with palms facing down.
 

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Thickness comes with time my friend. If you're serious about improving your condition, or even just your biceps I recommend you do two things:

1. Get your nutrition in order, often anxieties and mood disorders such as bdd can be greatly relieved if you know that you're eating right. So there is no reason for you to look skinny/fat.

2. Start a workout routine

But first do some research (bodybuilding.com is a useful site) and if your dedicated enough, within 3 months you will look and feel like a new man.

Good luck!
 

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actually the bicep is one muscle, it just has 2 heads
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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whatever you want to call it ;)

wanna grow it, do some bi-curls and hammer curls
 

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read diesel's post... I started to work out 2 months ago and I can definitely see some good results... Gotta work.... though body dysmorphic disorder doesn't generally come alone. If it is affecting other areas of your life, then I recommend you to see a therapist.If you just feel like your arms are small, then you gotta stop bytching and start working
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Try hammer curls [thumbs up grip] and then rotate the wrist upwards at the top. Obviously this is difficult to do with a barbell, so you can either dumbbells or you can do pulley curls. For pulley curls use the handle made of rope with the balls on the end. Stand so that when all of the slack is out of the cable and the weight hasn't left the ground your forearms are just below parallel to the ground. For one thing, limiting your range of motion to your strong range will allow you to use much more weight, and thus increase the intensity factor. Also, because of the way the knife of your hand sort of grips the rope as your rotate your wrist, you'll notice an especially invigorating extra bit of pump each rep. Hope this helps.
 
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