"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Whys She Even Bother??

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OK I have this girl who was my gf but we've been broken up for about 2 months(only went out for about a month)
Well when we broke up things were rough at first since I got mad and asked for her friends number since she claimed she just wanted to be friends. But since then things have been smoothed over and were supposedly good now. Well she txts me every now and then the last time being at 1am this morning. I was asleep but I txted her back around 10am asking what she wanted. It seems her answer is always something like " I was just out partying and seeing what was up"
But if you're out at a party drinking and what not why would you be txting someone??-let alone an ex.
What do you guys make of this?
I think Im just gonna ignore her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NEXT. Tell her to stop texting you.

and figure out a way to get that friend's #, seriously
 
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Just thought itd make things less awkward if I ran into her on base or anywhere if I kept things on friendly terms.
Its one of her best friends which is why she got so mad when I asked-though she said she actually called her to see if it was ok to give her number to me. She said her friend said hell no and that I was an ******* for even asking. Damn
Her friend is the kinda girl whos hot(about hb8-9) but is with a guy who cheats on her and she still chooses to be with her.
And the only way I know to reach her would be to add them both back on myspace but Im sure that would cause some drama.:(
 
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She said her friend said hell no and that I was an ******* for even asking.
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well, considering she took the liberty of asking the girl for you (which is b1tchy), and her friend replied THROUGH her, I'm not at all surprised. That said, NEXT them both, dude. Forget these b1tches and attention h0rs.

I seriously wouldn't reply to anything she ever sends me. If she called me and I picked up for whatever reason, I'd tell her to stop calling.

your answer to "let's just be friends" should always be, "No thanks, I've already got plenty of friends"
 
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well I cancelled my txt plan anyways and Im not gonna waste my time anymore by giving her a response
screw her-Its bout time I finally replace that b!tch anyways
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i think she told you she was out partying just to impress you, that or, it was the gayest party ever.
 
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