"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why's She Doing This?

foomee

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So my ex dumped me about a month ago and we were still talking a little the week after, but then we both just dropped everything. I tried to initiate small talk over myspace and facebook, but she wouldn't reply back... I knew that it was over forever, but I didn't think she'd go as far to ignore me like that... we both live in the dorms at the same college, and some of her only friends are 5 other guys that I live with. My friends tell me that she still talks to them sometimes, and she even writes on their facebook walls... seeing her doing this just tears me apart. I know I have to get over her and I'm trying... but the fact that she's ignoring me just tears me to shreds... what is your advice on this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Obsidian

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why would you want anything other than to cease all contact with her? Talking to her and being around her is just tantalizing yourself.
 

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obsidian, that name sounds familiar... did you post on antirice?

but yeah, just get over it man... it will take time but one day you'll forget that shes even alive.
 

semperfkemall

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the less contact you have with her, the faster you will get over her and stop hurting. be indifferent to everything else, myspace/facebook crap.
 

Lion

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Have you read the bible? Read it. THe best thing for YOU right now is to forget about her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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