"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why's She Doing This?

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foomee

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So my ex dumped me about a month ago and we were still talking a little the week after, but then we both just dropped everything. I tried to initiate small talk over myspace and facebook, but she wouldn't reply back... I knew that it was over forever, but I didn't think she'd go as far to ignore me like that... we both live in the dorms at the same college, and some of her only friends are 5 other guys that I live with. My friends tell me that she still talks to them sometimes, and she even writes on their facebook walls... seeing her doing this just tears me apart. I know I have to get over her and I'm trying... but the fact that she's ignoring me just tears me to shreds... what is your advice on this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Obsidian

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why would you want anything other than to cease all contact with her? Talking to her and being around her is just tantalizing yourself.
 
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touge

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obsidian, that name sounds familiar... did you post on antirice?

but yeah, just get over it man... it will take time but one day you'll forget that shes even alive.
 
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semperfkemall

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the less contact you have with her, the faster you will get over her and stop hurting. be indifferent to everything else, myspace/facebook crap.
 
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Lion

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Have you read the bible? Read it. THe best thing for YOU right now is to forget about her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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