Why?

[jbrunner_ipa]

Once again, i'm questioning my motives. I've been in a ltr before and was engaged. I loved having a person around who made me feel good but there was so much involved in being with somebody....so many strings. I'm in a band that's doing very well and that takes up so much of my time and to be honest, I love my music more than i could ever love another human being.
I would like to be in a relationship with somebody....but i can't get up to asking anybody out or even going out with anybody who clearly expresses interest because the question of "why"? comes up.
I don't know why i would be doing it.....i don't have time to be in a relationship, the label clearly doesn't pay the band enough for me to support a family....i'm too selfish to handle the strings attached....so........why? What's the point? I'm just going to end up hurting somebody and still ending up by myself in the end...........can somebody help me?

 

[DEKKA]

stop making excuses for yourself.
i doubt
the reason
you arent
asking
women out or whatever is because
you
have
some kind
of fear, insecurity,
or hangup that's deceiving you.



handle it.

 

[DEKKA]

discussion.

 

[jbrunner_ipa]

come on...seriously..if anybody has some thoughts on it tell me. My problem is i can't rationalize asking a girl out...i can't find reason to....see above

 

[hardwork]

Originally posted by DEKKA
discussion.

 

[jbrunner_ipa]

Bump

 

[tiburon]

honestly

dude dont get into a relationship.........or force it ..if you like your music thats awsome...but trust me that about loving your music more than you can love another human being its just not true....

Think of your family......

but the good thing about this is that when you meet a girl that answers that question for you ...then if she has a good attitude ...you will be set if you act as a true Don juan..


Tiburon