Why is it that whenever I am around a chick that I have absolutly no interest in I feel like I have to watch what I say or do so I do not accidentlly trigger her interest and generate attractioin in her, but when I am around girls that I am interested in, I seem to freeze up and seemingly "forget" how to do things that I know work and that I activily avoid in other situations. This just makes no sense to me at all and it frustrates the hell out of me.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why??
- Thread starter zzirf25
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