Why is it that whenever I am around a chick that I have absolutly no interest in I feel like I have to watch what I say or do so I do not accidentlly trigger her interest and generate attractioin in her, but when I am around girls that I am interested in, I seem to freeze up and seemingly "forget" how to do things that I know work and that I activily avoid in other situations. This just makes no sense to me at all and it frustrates the hell out of me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why??
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