"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why??

zzirf25

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Why is it that whenever I am around a chick that I have absolutly no interest in I feel like I have to watch what I say or do so I do not accidentlly trigger her interest and generate attractioin in her, but when I am around girls that I am interested in, I seem to freeze up and seemingly "forget" how to do things that I know work and that I activily avoid in other situations. This just makes no sense to me at all and it frustrates the hell out of me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Charm

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yea, its nervousness and anxiety and the only way to beat it is to experince it over and over. Even then though, what you ate for breakfast is a factor.
 
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