Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why you shouldn´t put women on a pedestal

JdelaSilviera

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If you put them on a pedestal, you will feel inferior to them and they will notice it.

You have to understand that the all value thing is in your mind. People only have the value you give to them.
For instance contrary to most people I don´t consider celebraties to have high value. I have actresses in my gym always staring in hope they get noticed, but I just think they are pathetic and I can talk to hot actresses with the same respect I would give a 10 year old spoiled girl..


AGAIN it´s ALL IN YOUR MIND and YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL INFERIOR:

1) She is prettier than you, SO WHAT? Looks go quickly and you are probably smarter than her.

2) She has a lot of guys hitting on her and you don´t have many girls chasing you. ONCE AGAIN this is just how society works, it´s not her merit, even ugly women have more options than hot men, yes it´s true.

3) She has more friends than you, good for her but you are a stronger guy who is mentally stable to face life alone if needed.

The list goes on....get ride of these thoughts.... You are the man, you rule the world...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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if you have the habit to put woman into a pedestral, you will never get laid, that a rule.

:up: for the thread
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Why you shouldn´t put women on a pedestal
If you put them on a pedestal, you will feel inferior to them and they will notice it.
Also some women use it to their advantage.

You have to understand that the all value thing is in your mind. People only have the value you give to them.
Exactly suppose its a night club. A woman only wants a drink from you or tries to have you get something for her, you refuse...what value does she have then? lol. Your more valuable because you did what you wanted to.

For instance contrary to most people I don´t consider celebraties to have high value. I have actresses in my gym always staring in hope they get noticed, but I just think they are pathetic and I can talk to hot actresses with the same respect I would give a 10 year old spoiled girl..
I would hope you would be going up to them :)

AGAIN it´s ALL IN YOUR MIND and YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL INFERIOR:

1) She is prettier than you, SO WHAT? Looks go quickly and you are probably smarter than her.
Even intelligence wouldn't matter. There can be a woman who's smarter and hotter, but that doesn't mean anything. Plus Looks and/or smarts are a dime a dozen.

2) She has a lot of guys hitting on her and you don´t have many girls chasing you. ONCE AGAIN this is just how society works, it´s not her merit, even ugly women have more options than hot men, yes it´s true.
Absolutely true! Plus we're men, we go after our prey ;)

3) She has more friends than you, good for her but you are a stronger guy who is mentally stable to face life alone if needed.
+Rep. Friends don't mean jack as you said. You don't need a lot of friends to dictate your self worth.

The list goes on....get ride of these thoughts.... You are the man, you rule the world...
Also the talk about leagues need to stop too. We are all equal in this earth and any woman who says she's above you can go eat a ****, yours ;)
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
If you put them on a pedestal, you will feel inferior to them and they will notice it.

You have to understand that the all value thing is in your mind. People only have the value you give to them.
For instance contrary to most people I don´t consider celebraties to have high value. I have actresses in my gym always staring in hope they get noticed, but I just think they are pathetic and I can talk to hot actresses with the same respect I would give a 10 year old spoiled girl..


AGAIN it´s ALL IN YOUR MIND and YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL INFERIOR:

1) She is prettier than you, SO WHAT? Looks go quickly and you are probably smarter than her.

2) She has a lot of guys hitting on her and you don´t have many girls chasing you. ONCE AGAIN this is just how society works, it´s not her merit, even ugly women have more options than hot men, yes it´s true.

3) She has more friends than you, good for her but you are a stronger guy who is mentally stable to face life alone if needed.

The list goes on....get ride of these thoughts.... You are the man, you rule the world...
Simply put, read my sig!

The numbered list was kinda funny.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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