"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why you shouldn´t put women on a pedestal

JdelaSilviera

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If you put them on a pedestal, you will feel inferior to them and they will notice it.

You have to understand that the all value thing is in your mind. People only have the value you give to them.
For instance contrary to most people I don´t consider celebraties to have high value. I have actresses in my gym always staring in hope they get noticed, but I just think they are pathetic and I can talk to hot actresses with the same respect I would give a 10 year old spoiled girl..


AGAIN it´s ALL IN YOUR MIND and YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL INFERIOR:

1) She is prettier than you, SO WHAT? Looks go quickly and you are probably smarter than her.

2) She has a lot of guys hitting on her and you don´t have many girls chasing you. ONCE AGAIN this is just how society works, it´s not her merit, even ugly women have more options than hot men, yes it´s true.

3) She has more friends than you, good for her but you are a stronger guy who is mentally stable to face life alone if needed.

The list goes on....get ride of these thoughts.... You are the man, you rule the world...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if you have the habit to put woman into a pedestral, you will never get laid, that a rule.

:up: for the thread
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Why you shouldn´t put women on a pedestal
If you put them on a pedestal, you will feel inferior to them and they will notice it.
Also some women use it to their advantage.

You have to understand that the all value thing is in your mind. People only have the value you give to them.
Exactly suppose its a night club. A woman only wants a drink from you or tries to have you get something for her, you refuse...what value does she have then? lol. Your more valuable because you did what you wanted to.

For instance contrary to most people I don´t consider celebraties to have high value. I have actresses in my gym always staring in hope they get noticed, but I just think they are pathetic and I can talk to hot actresses with the same respect I would give a 10 year old spoiled girl..
I would hope you would be going up to them :)

AGAIN it´s ALL IN YOUR MIND and YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL INFERIOR:

1) She is prettier than you, SO WHAT? Looks go quickly and you are probably smarter than her.
Even intelligence wouldn't matter. There can be a woman who's smarter and hotter, but that doesn't mean anything. Plus Looks and/or smarts are a dime a dozen.

2) She has a lot of guys hitting on her and you don´t have many girls chasing you. ONCE AGAIN this is just how society works, it´s not her merit, even ugly women have more options than hot men, yes it´s true.
Absolutely true! Plus we're men, we go after our prey ;)

3) She has more friends than you, good for her but you are a stronger guy who is mentally stable to face life alone if needed.
+Rep. Friends don't mean jack as you said. You don't need a lot of friends to dictate your self worth.

The list goes on....get ride of these thoughts.... You are the man, you rule the world...
Also the talk about leagues need to stop too. We are all equal in this earth and any woman who says she's above you can go eat a ****, yours ;)
 

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JdelaSilviera said:
If you put them on a pedestal, you will feel inferior to them and they will notice it.

You have to understand that the all value thing is in your mind. People only have the value you give to them.
For instance contrary to most people I don´t consider celebraties to have high value. I have actresses in my gym always staring in hope they get noticed, but I just think they are pathetic and I can talk to hot actresses with the same respect I would give a 10 year old spoiled girl..


AGAIN it´s ALL IN YOUR MIND and YOU SHOULD NEVER FEEL INFERIOR:

1) She is prettier than you, SO WHAT? Looks go quickly and you are probably smarter than her.

2) She has a lot of guys hitting on her and you don´t have many girls chasing you. ONCE AGAIN this is just how society works, it´s not her merit, even ugly women have more options than hot men, yes it´s true.

3) She has more friends than you, good for her but you are a stronger guy who is mentally stable to face life alone if needed.

The list goes on....get ride of these thoughts.... You are the man, you rule the world...
Simply put, read my sig!

The numbered list was kinda funny.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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