"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why you need to consider yourself beyond a LTR

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Prenote: if you do not consider yourself beyond a LTR you've got work to do...

Why?

A long term relationship is always her paradigm ...

It doesn't matter if you're feeling it now. It doesn't matter if that's what you want...

You've got to escape. It's what she wants.

If it's what you want it's because you want to be tied down. that's wrong from a man.

it's wrong. so wrong. very wrong.

she wants to tie you down. get it through your head.

you must feel free.......the moment you feel a pull in searching for a ltr you must know that you are in her energy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What if you are in a closed relationship with her and another woman too? Like all 3 of you are in a closed relationship with each other. That would be the dream. But would you still be considered tied down then?
 
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ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:
But would you still be considered tied down then?
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No.

Consider the definition of that relationship. Granted you could get yourself trapped in any entanglement, don't you think?

Freedom comes from your mind. that's my point. Look how many of these posts are looking for the ltr before they even meet the girl!!! get what I am saying??? Free the mind first...

 
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Reykhel said:
No.

Consider the definition of that relationship. Granted you could get yourself trapped in any entanglement, don't you think?

Freedom comes from your mind. that's my point. Look how many of these posts are looking for the ltr before they even meet the girl!!! get what I am saying??? Free the mind first...

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I guess. I’d probably be pretty content with that setup though. Threesomes every night sounds good to me lol. And if something happens where it falls apart, oh well. It likely wasn’t meant to last, like all things I suppose.
 
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