Why you need to consider yourself beyond a LTR

[Reykhel]

Prenote: if you do not consider yourself beyond a LTR you've got work to do...

Why?

A long term relationship is always her paradigm ...

It doesn't matter if you're feeling it now. It doesn't matter if that's what you want...

You've got to escape. It's what she wants.

If it's what you want it's because you want to be tied down. that's wrong from a man.

it's wrong. so wrong. very wrong.

she wants to tie you down. get it through your head.

you must feel free.......the moment you feel a pull in searching for a ltr you must know that you are in her energy

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

What if you are in a closed relationship with her and another woman too? Like all 3 of you are in a closed relationship with each other. That would be the dream. But would you still be considered tied down then?

 

[Reykhel]

But would you still be considered tied down then?

No.

Consider the definition of that relationship. Granted you could get yourself trapped in any entanglement, don't you think?

Freedom comes from your mind. that's my point. Look how many of these posts are looking for the ltr before they even meet the girl!!! get what I am saying??? Free the mind first...

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

No.

Consider the definition of that relationship. Granted you could get yourself trapped in any entanglement, don't you think?

Freedom comes from your mind. that's my point. Look how many of these posts are looking for the ltr before they even meet the girl!!! get what I am saying??? Free the mind first...

I guess. I’d probably be pretty content with that setup though. Threesomes every night sounds good to me lol. And if something happens where it falls apart, oh well. It likely wasn’t meant to last, like all things I suppose.