Careful all you young fellas out there with your hormones raging wild, spending 4 hours everynight on your favorite porn websites.... because one day something strange might happen... something that is going to take a long time to get rid of and your going to wish you never gotten yourself into in the first place.. Well what if I told you that as the days go by and you continue your usual HABIT'S that one day your going to notice.. and its going to freak you out! FREAK YOU THE HELL OUT! that you preffer internet sexual intercourse than " REAL LIFE " well don't be surprised if that happens because you might just preffer sitting by yourself in your home than going out and experiencing the real thing.. THIS HAVE HAPPANED COUNTLESS TIMES so guys you better be prepared for what you are asking for because :nono: its going to be hard habit to break!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why You Must Now! Stop Jerking Off!!!! Must Read!!!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
CapedCrusader08
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This is actually something that concerns me, in that I have done it for so long, I mean, I remember once I went through a time when that's all I would do all day, is stay home, and watch porn, I would barely go out, and I was miserable. I still am. I have been concerned over how much this has affected me, as not with just sex drive, but general life drive/motivation.
I try to go for as long as I can w/o doing it, but end up doing it cause it feels good. I wonder how much has this affected my views and expectations, esp when it comes to meeting women and getting to the whole stages. I mean, it has probably affected to me where all I want is sex,nothing more, well, least that's how I viewed it, and since I wasn't getting it when I wanted it, I became depressed.
I try to go for as long as I can w/o doing it, but end up doing it cause it feels good. I wonder how much has this affected my views and expectations, esp when it comes to meeting women and getting to the whole stages. I mean, it has probably affected to me where all I want is sex,nothing more, well, least that's how I viewed it, and since I wasn't getting it when I wanted it, I became depressed.
Drum&Bass
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This is how all men feel. The only issues you have is having a high sex drive and no women horny enough to match it.
If and when you do meet a girl and have marathon sex for a day or 2 you'll stabilize and focus on more important things.
SEX IS A NECESSITY !! Don't let women and weak AFC's fool you into thinking that men need sex to mean more than what is.
Alphamale1821
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lol the truth of the matter is for me at least is while i do watch porn tat still hasn't stopped or decreased my sexual appetitie for women. In fact it has made it stronger, i watch porn simply for the nut and i'm getting more and more picky with porn. However when it comes to women, it's not just about sex it's about EVERYTHING. The process of going out and meeting someone new and having her want to have your **** inside of her will always be better then porn. Porn is good for solo alone time, BUT will never replace real women and sex. For some people it decrease their overall drive, and thats more of a mental issue then anything.
I'm just on vacation for break so when i'm not reading, working out, or going out a little porn in my leisure time isn't bad. I'm actually getting bored of it, but hey a nut is a nut, but SEX is SEX!!!!!!
I'm just on vacation for break so when i'm not reading, working out, or going out a little porn in my leisure time isn't bad. I'm actually getting bored of it, but hey a nut is a nut, but SEX is SEX!!!!!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
cloneofstenyhoyer
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if I don't jack it....I get stressed and I think maybe a bit too desperate for sex. too pushy. I think women can read the frustration.
TheWayOfAllFlesh
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If i don't bash one out i'll get stressy and take out my anger on everyone around me
Plus it helps me get to sleep each night
Plus it helps me get to sleep each night
Listen everybody jerk's off! It has been a proven fact by scientists and researchers that everybody has done it! Yes even that dude who gets all the chicks and seems to have never jacked off.... But you got to have a strong desire to change and for chris sakes FUC-KING CONTROL YOUR BODY AND YOU! SElf-control.. I stopped the day that I visualized that the real thing would be 10000x more better and that what If I couldn't stop myself from doing it was just damn straight immature and stupid of me. Also this might seem strange but I also visualized myself of having kids and that they are watching me all the time LOL! So i had to be the best that i CAN BE!
Following_of_Me
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Jerking off and the real thing aren't the same sensation, and you definitely won't ever turn down the real thing to do it yourself. This post was pointless.
Alphamale1821
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Quoted for truth:rockon:Following_of_Me said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hmmm any of you have heard of "Porn Creep?"
I'm surprised. Hell even CSI Miami made mention of it
nothing wrong with a good jerk now and again, but it can become something akin to an addiction and even f-up your sexual drive if abused. (That's ABUSED. as in taken to the extreme)
I'm surprised. Hell even CSI Miami made mention of it
nothing wrong with a good jerk now and again, but it can become something akin to an addiction and even f-up your sexual drive if abused. (That's ABUSED. as in taken to the extreme)
Ok, i tolf myself to stop for at least a short period of time...
haven't jerked off since last.. wednesday i believe, so 9 days.
havent went this long.. ever actually hmm, but this feels very NORMAL.
Yes it feels good, Caped Crusader (by the way i just felt my emotional and social IQ drop by like a half after writing "caped crusader" -hard to come up with a NERDIER name).. but heroin feels good too - just dont touch your **** - you'll feel much more confident after a day or two. as for right now - you are a poor excuse for a man.
haven't jerked off since last.. wednesday i believe, so 9 days.
havent went this long.. ever actually hmm, but this feels very NORMAL.
Yes it feels good, Caped Crusader (by the way i just felt my emotional and social IQ drop by like a half after writing "caped crusader" -hard to come up with a NERDIER name).. but heroin feels good too - just dont touch your **** - you'll feel much more confident after a day or two. as for right now - you are a poor excuse for a man.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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This is one of those posts FOR nerds BY nerds.
P-O-I-N-T-L-E-S-S.
P-O-I-N-T-L-E-S-S.
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I think I used to jerk-off to porn like twice a day...
I jerked off twice a day to porn whenever i wasn't getting any. And now I still jerk off now and again even if I AM getting some. It usually takes me 3 days to work up a fresh package, so if it hasn't been 'taken care of' by then, I'm jerking off!
Can't say it's affected my relationships with women as far as sex is concerned, and I'm a freak by nature so (aren't all guys though?). If there's one thing that all those years of porn-jerking have saddled me with it's a shady ambition to direct porn movies ;-)
I jerked off twice a day to porn whenever i wasn't getting any. And now I still jerk off now and again even if I AM getting some. It usually takes me 3 days to work up a fresh package, so if it hasn't been 'taken care of' by then, I'm jerking off!
Can't say it's affected my relationships with women as far as sex is concerned, and I'm a freak by nature so (aren't all guys though?). If there's one thing that all those years of porn-jerking have saddled me with it's a shady ambition to direct porn movies ;-)
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
I'll tell you 1 reason why you should jack off. It decreases your risk of prostate cancer.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.