"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why You Must Now! Stop Jerking Off!!!! Must Read!!!

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Careful all you young fellas out there with your hormones raging wild, spending 4 hours everynight on your favorite porn websites.... because one day something strange might happen... something that is going to take a long time to get rid of and your going to wish you never gotten yourself into in the first place.. Well what if I told you that as the days go by and you continue your usual HABIT'S that one day your going to notice.. and its going to freak you out! FREAK YOU THE HELL OUT! that you preffer internet sexual intercourse than " REAL LIFE " well don't be surprised if that happens because you might just preffer sitting by yourself in your home than going out and experiencing the real thing.. THIS HAVE HAPPANED COUNTLESS TIMES so guys you better be prepared for what you are asking for because :nono: its going to be hard habit to break!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lol

Really, that's all I can say to crap like this. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a good wank now and then. I don't think that anyone here spends 4 hours a night on their favourite porn sites...
 
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This is actually something that concerns me, in that I have done it for so long, I mean, I remember once I went through a time when that's all I would do all day, is stay home, and watch porn, I would barely go out, and I was miserable. I still am. I have been concerned over how much this has affected me, as not with just sex drive, but general life drive/motivation.


I try to go for as long as I can w/o doing it, but end up doing it cause it feels good. I wonder how much has this affected my views and expectations, esp when it comes to meeting women and getting to the whole stages. I mean, it has probably affected to me where all I want is sex,nothing more, well, least that's how I viewed it, and since I wasn't getting it when I wanted it, I became depressed.
 

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I try to go for as long as I can w/o doing it, but end up doing it cause it feels good. I wonder how much has this affected my views and expectations, esp when it comes to meeting women and getting to the whole stages. I mean, it has probably affected to me where all I want is sex,nothing more, well, least that's how I viewed it, and since I wasn't getting it when I wanted it, I became depressed.
This is how all men feel. The only issues you have is having a high sex drive and no women horny enough to match it.

If and when you do meet a girl and have marathon sex for a day or 2 you'll stabilize and focus on more important things.

SEX IS A NECESSITY !! Don't let women and weak AFC's fool you into thinking that men need sex to mean more than what is.
 

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lol the truth of the matter is for me at least is while i do watch porn tat still hasn't stopped or decreased my sexual appetitie for women. In fact it has made it stronger, i watch porn simply for the nut and i'm getting more and more picky with porn. However when it comes to women, it's not just about sex it's about EVERYTHING. The process of going out and meeting someone new and having her want to have your **** inside of her will always be better then porn. Porn is good for solo alone time, BUT will never replace real women and sex. For some people it decrease their overall drive, and thats more of a mental issue then anything.

I'm just on vacation for break so when i'm not reading, working out, or going out a little porn in my leisure time isn't bad. I'm actually getting bored of it, but hey a nut is a nut, but SEX is SEX!!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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if I don't jack it....I get stressed and I think maybe a bit too desperate for sex. too pushy. I think women can read the frustration.
 

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If i don't bash one out i'll get stressy and take out my anger on everyone around me

Plus it helps me get to sleep each night
 

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Listen everybody jerk's off! It has been a proven fact by scientists and researchers that everybody has done it! Yes even that dude who gets all the chicks and seems to have never jacked off.... But you got to have a strong desire to change and for chris sakes FUC-KING CONTROL YOUR BODY AND YOU! SElf-control.. I stopped the day that I visualized that the real thing would be 10000x more better and that what If I couldn't stop myself from doing it was just damn straight immature and stupid of me. Also this might seem strange but I also visualized myself of having kids and that they are watching me all the time LOL! So i had to be the best that i CAN BE!
 

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Jerking off and the real thing aren't the same sensation, and you definitely won't ever turn down the real thing to do it yourself. This post was pointless.
 

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Following_of_Me said:
Jerking off and the real thing aren't the same sensation, and you definitely won't ever turn down the real thing to do it yourself. This post was pointless.
Quoted for truth:rockon:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hmmm any of you have heard of "Porn Creep?"

I'm surprised. Hell even CSI Miami made mention of it :p

nothing wrong with a good jerk now and again, but it can become something akin to an addiction and even f-up your sexual drive if abused. (That's ABUSED. as in taken to the extreme)
 

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eatgel said:
Careful all you young fellas out there with your hormones raging wild, spending 4 hours everynight on your favorite porn websites.... because one day something strange might happen... something that is going to take a long time to get rid of and your going to wish you never gotten yourself into in the first place.. Well what if I told you that as the days go by and you continue your usual HABIT'S that one day your going to notice.. and its going to freak you out! FREAK YOU THE HELL OUT! that you preffer internet sexual intercourse than " REAL LIFE " well don't be surprised if that happens because you might just preffer sitting by yourself in your home than going out and experiencing the real thing.. THIS HAVE HAPPANED COUNTLESS TIMES so guys you better be prepared for what you are asking for because :nono: its going to be hard habit to break!
Take it easy. Some people also prefer Diet Coke instead of Real Coke.
 

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It doesn't take 4 hours to jerk off LOL more like 5-10 minutes.
 

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Ok, i tolf myself to stop for at least a short period of time...

haven't jerked off since last.. wednesday i believe, so 9 days.

havent went this long.. ever actually hmm, but this feels very NORMAL.

Yes it feels good, Caped Crusader (by the way i just felt my emotional and social IQ drop by like a half after writing "caped crusader" -hard to come up with a NERDIER name).. but heroin feels good too - just dont touch your **** - you'll feel much more confident after a day or two. as for right now - you are a poor excuse for a man.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Take it easy. Some people also prefer Diet Coke instead of Real Coke.
Yes, and these "some people" should not go to a site like this, and give ADVICE about things they don't know a damn thing about. You understand what im talking about
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you also forgot to quote me bro
 

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yall are fuc-king ignorant... keep on jerking off then guys... I wont stop you, you dont even get the point of the message.. Peace I wont bother anymore
 

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I think I used to jerk-off to porn like twice a day...

I jerked off twice a day to porn whenever i wasn't getting any. And now I still jerk off now and again even if I AM getting some. It usually takes me 3 days to work up a fresh package, so if it hasn't been 'taken care of' by then, I'm jerking off!

Can't say it's affected my relationships with women as far as sex is concerned, and I'm a freak by nature so (aren't all guys though?). If there's one thing that all those years of porn-jerking have saddled me with it's a shady ambition to direct porn movies ;-)
 

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I'll tell you 1 reason why you should jack off. It decreases your risk of prostate cancer.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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