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Why would an ex tell me she loves me after sex?

Kal0051

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My ex is visiting me this week, and is staying at my house (in my bed if you get what I mean :up: ). Anyways, yesterday after we're done having sex she tells me that she loves me. This caught me by surprise a bit since it's been 2 years since we've been together (though I went went out and spent a couple weeks with her last year, and we talk and email each other occasionally). What I'm wondering is whether she actually loves me or is that just a reaction from us sleeping together.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

horaholic

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Who cares? I hung out with my ex a few days ago, and she said the same thing. I didnt say it back. I just said "uh huh," sarcastically. She wasnt even offended by it.
 

Kal0051

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horaholic said:
Who cares? I hung out with my ex a few days ago, and she said the same thing. I didnt say it back. I just said "uh huh," sarcastically. She wasnt even offended by it.
lol, that was pretty much my response.
 

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Hors "love" every body, and no one, at the same time!
 

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I wish I'd hear my ex say that again.

If you don't care about her anymore why bother knowing why? She probably does? Only you would know.
 

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She says, in the afterglow, " I love you."
You reply, " I know."
 

Kal0051

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vagrant said:
I wish I'd hear my ex say that again.

If you don't care about her anymore why bother knowing why? She probably does? Only you would know.
who says I don't care about her anymore? We only broke up because I moved away. But I can't say I'm in love with her anymore since I moved on from that relationship.
 

Kal0051

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Joe Stud said:
saying ILY doesn't mean "I am in love with you"... relax and enjoy the plate
lol, don't worry, I'll enjoy her. Sex 2 times a day is fine by me. And soon enough she'll be gone and I'll need to work for pvssy, fvck!!!
 
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