"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why would an ex tell me she loves me after sex?

Kal0051

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My ex is visiting me this week, and is staying at my house (in my bed if you get what I mean :up: ). Anyways, yesterday after we're done having sex she tells me that she loves me. This caught me by surprise a bit since it's been 2 years since we've been together (though I went went out and spent a couple weeks with her last year, and we talk and email each other occasionally). What I'm wondering is whether she actually loves me or is that just a reaction from us sleeping together.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who cares? I hung out with my ex a few days ago, and she said the same thing. I didnt say it back. I just said "uh huh," sarcastically. She wasnt even offended by it.
 

Kal0051

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horaholic said:
Who cares? I hung out with my ex a few days ago, and she said the same thing. I didnt say it back. I just said "uh huh," sarcastically. She wasnt even offended by it.
lol, that was pretty much my response.
 

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Hors "love" every body, and no one, at the same time!
 

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I wish I'd hear my ex say that again.

If you don't care about her anymore why bother knowing why? She probably does? Only you would know.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She says, in the afterglow, " I love you."
You reply, " I know."
 

Kal0051

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vagrant said:
I wish I'd hear my ex say that again.

If you don't care about her anymore why bother knowing why? She probably does? Only you would know.
who says I don't care about her anymore? We only broke up because I moved away. But I can't say I'm in love with her anymore since I moved on from that relationship.
 

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Joe Stud said:
saying ILY doesn't mean "I am in love with you"... relax and enjoy the plate
lol, don't worry, I'll enjoy her. Sex 2 times a day is fine by me. And soon enough she'll be gone and I'll need to work for pvssy, fvck!!!
 
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