I'm going to disagree with this. I'm not stating that this woman in question *is* or *isn't* interested. However, I'm not sure that it's a fare assessment to make absolutes here. It's possible that she could have been interested and he immersed her with too much attention and praise.
BeExcellent, I'm sure that you've had some experience where a guy was overly available and accommodating. And... any attraction (or potential attraction) instantly vanished. Right? This is actually universal and applies to both genders. I have experienced this and embarrassingly, I've also been responsible for this.
I don't claim to be the poster-boy for Duan Juan's (I've certainly made my share of fumbles) but I do claim to understand a bit about psychology. Having learned from my past blunders, and studied the reasons for which they occurred... I've not only greatly reduced the negative outcome ratio, but in several cases, turned the tables on the outcome. Again, I'm not claiming Casanova status here. It's all about understanding why and how things occurred in the first place.
What you have written is true. Hell I had about 4 dates recently with a man who blew himself right out by being TOO into me...He brought roses, kept gushing about how beautiful and amazing I am, how emotionally healthy, etc., etc., etc., and the guy is handsome too, but it icked me right out...so yeah. The guy was talking about moving in together and raising our daughters together (now if that doesn't freak a girl right out on the 4th date I don't know what will...) and he is super smart, Berkeley educated, attractive, ex college athlete with a full head of hair and a great smile. He's a great dad and a businessman who's been successful. His parents are happily married 50 years.
I actually TOLD him straight up (in a kind way) he was freaking me out. To which he got a little defensive and started saying "Well you don't understand what a GOOD person I am..." so I told him, "Exactly. But you TELLING me that isn't helping me get to know you. That requires time invested and you can't start planning our future on the 4th date!" OMG seriously. He's either desperate or nuts or both. Pass. He's 49.
But he still texts me good morning, offers to pick me up at the airport and so forth, and he called the other day (and I told him what the issue was)...and he wants to be "friends". That guy is auditioning for orbiter as hard as he can. Ugh. No. I have male friends who I interact with on the daily who are NOT orbiters...I frankly don't like orbiters, there is not enough time in my day to humor them when I know there is no attraction...I do not need the extra attention...
The guy above was a good kisser too (nothing else happened), but he was gushing over me and selling himself WAY too much. Run Forrest, RUN!
A digression, obviously. But what that culminates in is low or no interest. I'm no longer responding to the guy above. I've TOTALLY lost interest in him. He is so blue pilled that he cannot see anything but that.
Many women DO want the attention. They WILL use men for attention. But if she won't see you, she isn't interested...or isn't interested anymore.
Same result.