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I have only known for about a week ask me if I had a girlfriend?

She just moved into the home I live in with 2 other guys and we have chatted and get on cool (she is from Canada and I'm a New Zealander), but I just find it a little strange that she would ask me that question.

I answered back and said 'ha ha if I did have a girlfriend, you would have seen her by now"

and she answered "well I don't know you might be fighting or something"

any thoughts?
 

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Nobody is a mind reader here.

But heres 4 ******** translations for the hell of it.

"Is he gay?"

"Is there some social proof?"

"Heres some curious fluff talk"

"All the above"

Either or take it as an invite to nail it anyway.

Btw you should have busted her balls on it, your reply was pretty weak, but nevermind. I got asked last week if I was married and replied with "why, you putting your hand up?" , also used "Slow down, get in line I'll see what I can do", not the best but not too bad I think on the fly.


EDIT: Holy sh!t "w@manese" is edited out? Thats a new one, anyone know why? just another gayer by the day reminder or what?
 

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Nobody is a mind reader here.

But heres 4 ******** translations for the hell of it.

"Is he gay?"

"Is there some social proof?"

"Heres some curious fluff talk"

"All the above"

Either or take it as an invite to nail it anyway.

Btw you should have busted her balls on it, your reply was pretty weak, but nevermind. I got asked last week if I was married and replied with "why, you putting your hand up?" , also used "Slow down, get in line I'll see what I can do", not the best but not too bad I think on the fly.


EDIT: Holy sh!t "w@manese" is edited out? Thats a new one, anyone know why? just another gayer by the day reminder or what?
I get what you are saying man, the reason I find it odd is because there are 2 other dudes living here and she hasn't asked them, I noticed too that she was playing with her necklace when she asked me...b.t.w. she has a boyfriend and you can't judge that my reply was weak because you don't know what tone it was in.

I actually remember asking her with a puzzled look on my face why do you want to know?, it's just curiosity I mean I have had girls ask me this many times before...but I had known them a lot longer than a week you know.

Peace for you answer anyway.

P.S. That is crazy that W O M A N E S E is edited out
 

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You have to keep in mind SHE'S YOUR ROOMMATE, she simply wants to get to know you. Most likely she wants to set the boundaries. If you have a g/f, she can let down her guard a little, if you don't it depends on what she's already decided about you, at this point she's already attracted to you or your in the LJBF zone. More likely the latter.
 

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MacAvoy said:
You have to keep in mind SHE'S YOUR ROOMMATE, she simply wants to get to know you. Most likely she wants to set the boundaries. If you have a g/f, she can let down her guard a little, if you don't it depends on what she's already decided about you, at this point she's already attracted to you or your in the LJBF zone. More likely the latter.
The thing is I never once said I was attracted to her or anything like that dude so you can ease up on the capitals, I and will freaking stress this for those that can't read!...I was just curious, which I guess she is about me...I am curious why she has only asked me and not the other room mates?, is that a crime?...I wasn't aware it was.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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holy crap. do you realize how AFC it is to obsess over some comment some chic makes?

even if she did like you, with the type of thinking you are exhibiting, if you got her you'd screw it up.
 

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holy crap. do you realize how AFC it is to obsess over some comment some chic makes?

even if she did like you, with the type of thinking you are exhibiting, if you got her you'd screw it up.

R.T.C.F.R.P.P

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holy crap. do you realize how AFC it is to obsess over some comment some chic makes?

even if she did like you, with the type of thinking you are exhibiting, if you got her you'd screw it up.

holy crap. do you realize how stupid it is to actually miss the question that was asked?

even if you did, your answer would still be stupid with the kind of replying you are exhibiting (and you have close to 800 posts???) if you did get it, you'd be screwed.

even though MacAvoy annoyed me with trying to tell me something I already knew, he displayed he knew what I was asking and gave a mature answer, yours was just an anal response and it was clear that you are just trying to show everyone how much of the man you are....so Joekerr31...go **** yourself
 

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Lock/Delete Thread...**** this site...I won't be back.
 

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Lock/Delete Thread...**** this site...I won't be back.

LOL Who's the mature one now? Nothing like the kid who takes his tennis ball home so no one else can play cuz he didn't get to score the goal.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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