“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why would a girl tell me about her previous sexual encounter?

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I was text flirting with a girl one evening. I was out with friends and she had texted me. THings were getting quite flirty and i told her to come and meet me that night but she said she was going home and put a little :( at the end of her text.

She continued texting suggesting wouldn't I prefer this other girl we both knew and then she started telling me something about being so drunk and how her friends had to tell her what she had done. When I asked her what she was talking about she said 'Do I have to spell it out' so I'm guessing she was talking about sex. Why though? If it was to put me off her then why bother texting me at all?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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:-) said:
I was text flirting with a girl one evening. I was out with friends and she had texted me. THings were getting quite flirty and i told her to come and meet me that night but she said she was going home and put a little :( at the end of her text.

She continued texting suggesting wouldn't I prefer this other girl we both knew and then she started telling me something about being so drunk and how her friends had to tell her what she had done.
When she asked if you preferred her friend, that was your opportunity to make your intentions pretty clear. Forget the text, make the call and tell her that if she won't come to you, you'll come to her.

My only experience with women talking about their sex life was because they wanted me to be part of it.
You put in some good work but didn't close the deal. As long as you don't make her feel small about the texts she sent you (because she was probably drunk) your window of opportunity is still open here. Keep up the flirting, see where it takes you.

Good luck!
 

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Cremasta said:
When she asked if you preferred her friend, that was your opportunity to make your intentions pretty clear. Forget the text, make the call and tell her that if she won't come to you, you'll come to her.

My only experience with women talking about their sex life was because they wanted me to be part of it.
You put in some good work but didn't close the deal. As long as you don't make her feel small about the texts she sent you (because she was probably drunk) your window of opportunity is still open here. Keep up the flirting, see where it takes you.

Good luck!
Yeah, I had a women I met on a first date once that was telling me that she had a FWB that she kept around because it was "the best sex evvvvver...." so I asked her to elaborate on it...she started getting all hot and bothered, started kino'ing the f*ck out of her, hand on her knee, up her leg, rubbing her p*ssy thru her jeans, chick about jumped me and I ended up pounding her about an hour and a half after we had met the first time...

If a woman talks about sex, she is basically giving you a green light to hit it...
 

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Cremasta said:
When she asked if you preferred her friend, that was your opportunity to make your intentions pretty clear. Forget the text, make the call and tell her that if she won't come to you, you'll come to her.

My only experience with women talking about their sex life was because they wanted me to be part of it.
You put in some good work but didn't close the deal. As long as you don't make her feel small about the texts she sent you (because she was probably drunk) your window of opportunity is still open here. Keep up the flirting, see where it takes you.

Good luck!
marmel75 said:
Yeah, I had a women I met on a first date once that was telling me that she had a FWB that she kept around because it was "the best sex evvvvver...." so I asked her to elaborate on it...she started getting all hot and bothered, started kino'ing the f*ck out of her, hand on her knee, up her leg, rubbing her p*ssy thru her jeans, chick about jumped me and I ended up pounding her about an hour and a half after we had met the first time...

If a woman talks about sex, she is basically giving you a green light to hit it...
Golden.
 

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She has a bfriend. i kind of took the high road and said that it was dangerous what we were doing as someone (me) might want more. she agreed it was dangerous and said that she had to make a decision and that she just wanted me to be happy.

i asked if me getting together with that other girl would make her happy. she said 'yes it would! :)' i said 'ok i'll see what i can do'. and that was that.

all that is in the back of my mind is if she can do this to her current bfriend then what's she going to be like with me?
 
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