"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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why would a girl do this....

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my friend who is a girl who isnt my girlfriend although i already have one has been constealy msging me on msn talk for 30 minutes each day...she says she cant wait to see me when school starts (2 weeks) shes said she misses me so much for two months now yet she doesnt ask me to hang out....i never ask the girls to hang out they always ask me, wierd...why is she doing this why wont she ask me to hang out if she realy misses me that much?


EDIT: she also says im one of only 3 people she can trust yet sh estill hasnt asked to hang out...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dude, if she did was literally setting up and flashing a 70 ft wide neon sign with rainbow colors written: I like U

what you need to realize is that girls dont ask guys out, it's just how the soceity works

she opened the entrance, now be the man and enter it by asking her out
 
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but she has a boy friend as do i have a girlfriend!

not to mention she is also definatly not shy as well, she always msgs me first
 

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Thats friendship zone buddy.

When she says "I trust you", and you havn't fcked her, then she's your "mate".

It's just bull**** girls don't know they're doing to fvck you up. Just stay with your current g/f and think nothing more of it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Obie said:
Just fvck her for Pete's sake!
no spam pleae+


anymore opinions?

she never just said she trusted me i asked her why she told me this one thing she says because she trusts me

ahhh 2 differnt opinions what do you guys say?
 
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The Acacia Strain said:
no spam pleae+


anymore opinions?

she never just said she trusted me i asked her why she told me this one thing she says because she trusts me

ahhh 2 differnt opinions what do you guys say?
fdfds
 
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penkitten said:
dude she likes you
I KNOW and i like her more than my girlfriend shes makes me feel so good when i talk to her its amazing...but why wont she ask me to hang out :/
 

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of course she can thrust you dude.. coz you still didn't fuk her..you are a nice friend of her.. she is gonna use u and hang out with other guys...be fast and get laid..its my perception..


sex is not the answer. sex is the question.. yes is the answer.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Trapper said:
sex is not the answer. sex is the question.. yes is the answer.
Who should I give this great quote credit to? :up: I'm using it, that's why I'm asking.
 

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She might be looking to "trade up." A lot of gals pick out their next beau before dumping their current one. Kinda fvcked-up, but that's the way it goes ...
 
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Trapper said:
of course she can thrust you dude.. coz you still didn't fuk her..you are a nice friend of her.. she is gonna use u and hang out with other guys...be fast and get laid..its my perception..


sex is not the answer. sex is the question.. yes is the answer.
i am in highschool just to let you know...

and im not like the nice afc faggot...she enjoys my company because its enjoyable converstaions because i make fun of her and it makes her laugh and ****...and for some reason she trusts me with some things that are like deep...not going to go into what becuase it will sidetrack things
 

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Acacia.. What kind of answer are you looking for??

you've been told “She likes you”.. anybody who has experience with girls knows this.. the fact that you have a girlfriend, or she a boyfriends has no baring on this matter.. those are just words..definitions.. in reality they mean nothing...

We cannot choose who we become attracted to.. to quote David D. “Attraction is not a choice”

The question should be what do you want to do?

We can not answer this for you, only you can..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Be a man and ask her what she thinks of you, because you're getting mixed signals. Simple as that.

If she wants you, go from there. You won't need our advice to decide how to live your life.

If she thinks you're friends- hey, good for you. You can always use another friend.

Don't be a girl and say, "oh, but what if my girlfriend or her boyfriend finds out I asked her what she thinks about me!" ..... "So what. She was sending me signals so I asked what was up."

Entiendes?
 

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because you guys are suppose to be doing the asking to hang out and such .
 
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Stem said:
Acacia.. What kind of answer are you looking for??

you've been told “She likes you”.. anybody who has experience with girls knows this.. the fact that you have a girlfriend, or she a boyfriends has no baring on this matter.. those are just words..definitions.. in reality they mean nothing...

We cannot choose who we become attracted to.. to quote David D. “Attraction is not a choice”

The question should be what do you want to do?

We can not answer this for you, only you can..
wow this was perfect, i have never seen anyone put this **** into better words than that...wow...thank you so much
 

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what you need to realize is that having a bf or gf dont mean sh*t in high school, ppl still flirt like hell as if they are single

if you want her you better move quickly for the killl or you will be dropped into the friend zone soon
 

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Women have two kinds of friends, Boyfriends and Girlfriends. If you're not fukking her, you're her Girlfriend.

Stop playing 'friends'.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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