Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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why would a girl do this....

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my friend who is a girl who isnt my girlfriend although i already have one has been constealy msging me on msn talk for 30 minutes each day...she says she cant wait to see me when school starts (2 weeks) shes said she misses me so much for two months now yet she doesnt ask me to hang out....i never ask the girls to hang out they always ask me, wierd...why is she doing this why wont she ask me to hang out if she realy misses me that much?


EDIT: she also says im one of only 3 people she can trust yet sh estill hasnt asked to hang out...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ4Life

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dude, if she did was literally setting up and flashing a 70 ft wide neon sign with rainbow colors written: I like U

what you need to realize is that girls dont ask guys out, it's just how the soceity works

she opened the entrance, now be the man and enter it by asking her out
 
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but she has a boy friend as do i have a girlfriend!

not to mention she is also definatly not shy as well, she always msgs me first
 

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Thats friendship zone buddy.

When she says "I trust you", and you havn't fcked her, then she's your "mate".

It's just bull**** girls don't know they're doing to fvck you up. Just stay with your current g/f and think nothing more of it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Obie said:
Just fvck her for Pete's sake!
no spam pleae+


anymore opinions?

she never just said she trusted me i asked her why she told me this one thing she says because she trusts me

ahhh 2 differnt opinions what do you guys say?
 
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The Acacia Strain said:
no spam pleae+


anymore opinions?

she never just said she trusted me i asked her why she told me this one thing she says because she trusts me

ahhh 2 differnt opinions what do you guys say?
fdfds
 
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penkitten said:
dude she likes you
I KNOW and i like her more than my girlfriend shes makes me feel so good when i talk to her its amazing...but why wont she ask me to hang out :/
 

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of course she can thrust you dude.. coz you still didn't fuk her..you are a nice friend of her.. she is gonna use u and hang out with other guys...be fast and get laid..its my perception..


sex is not the answer. sex is the question.. yes is the answer.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Trapper said:
sex is not the answer. sex is the question.. yes is the answer.
Who should I give this great quote credit to? :up: I'm using it, that's why I'm asking.
 

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She might be looking to "trade up." A lot of gals pick out their next beau before dumping their current one. Kinda fvcked-up, but that's the way it goes ...
 
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Trapper said:
of course she can thrust you dude.. coz you still didn't fuk her..you are a nice friend of her.. she is gonna use u and hang out with other guys...be fast and get laid..its my perception..


sex is not the answer. sex is the question.. yes is the answer.
i am in highschool just to let you know...

and im not like the nice afc faggot...she enjoys my company because its enjoyable converstaions because i make fun of her and it makes her laugh and ****...and for some reason she trusts me with some things that are like deep...not going to go into what becuase it will sidetrack things
 

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Acacia.. What kind of answer are you looking for??

you've been told “She likes you”.. anybody who has experience with girls knows this.. the fact that you have a girlfriend, or she a boyfriends has no baring on this matter.. those are just words..definitions.. in reality they mean nothing...

We cannot choose who we become attracted to.. to quote David D. “Attraction is not a choice”

The question should be what do you want to do?

We can not answer this for you, only you can..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Be a man and ask her what she thinks of you, because you're getting mixed signals. Simple as that.

If she wants you, go from there. You won't need our advice to decide how to live your life.

If she thinks you're friends- hey, good for you. You can always use another friend.

Don't be a girl and say, "oh, but what if my girlfriend or her boyfriend finds out I asked her what she thinks about me!" ..... "So what. She was sending me signals so I asked what was up."

Entiendes?
 

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because you guys are suppose to be doing the asking to hang out and such .
 
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Stem said:
Acacia.. What kind of answer are you looking for??

you've been told “She likes you”.. anybody who has experience with girls knows this.. the fact that you have a girlfriend, or she a boyfriends has no baring on this matter.. those are just words..definitions.. in reality they mean nothing...

We cannot choose who we become attracted to.. to quote David D. “Attraction is not a choice”

The question should be what do you want to do?

We can not answer this for you, only you can..
wow this was perfect, i have never seen anyone put this **** into better words than that...wow...thank you so much
 

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what you need to realize is that having a bf or gf dont mean sh*t in high school, ppl still flirt like hell as if they are single

if you want her you better move quickly for the killl or you will be dropped into the friend zone soon
 

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Women have two kinds of friends, Boyfriends and Girlfriends. If you're not fukking her, you're her Girlfriend.

Stop playing 'friends'.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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