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Why would a girl be mad at you, if you tried hooking up w/her girlfriend?

ScrewIt

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what reason would a girl be pissed at you if you tried hooking up with her girlfriend??

well i think my friend is pissed at me cause i tried, but failed, w/o letting her know.

normally a girl would not be pissed unless they like you right?
this ever happen to any of u before?
 

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Kineti[C]harm

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Or because they don't think you are material for her friend or because they feel left out of the loop.
 

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Or because they don't think you are material for her friend or because they feel left out of the loop.
huh what? please explain.

i dunno i think my friend likes me. last month she asked me questions about if i ever had gf's and how much i had when we were alone shooting pool...probably a damn test, but i didnt answer how much, just made her guess.

before she got pissed, she'd ask me to hang out w/her + her friend. she puts down herself that she doesnt look attractive.
she called me up and let me borrow her textbook that i needed for a class, when i didnt even ask her to. she could've sold it to me but lent it instead.
 

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In your case it seems like this girl wants you. But a lot of times a girl who is strictly your friend will get jealous when you try to hook up with her friend because girls are jealous creatures by nature. They all crave attention and when they get it and then suddenly see it go away from them, even for a moment, they can't deal with it.



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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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So what would you do if your best friend hooks up with your ex gf?

Just something to think about....
 

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Kitty Kats Kompete.

It doesn't matter if the chick likes you or not. They often don't want to see you hook up with another chick or, more accurately, get out competed by another kitty.

We guys are often lead to believe that chicks are happier when people hook-up, especially their lack-of-a-man girlfriends. Sometimes true, most times not.
 

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well i dont give a crap if they may be outcompeted by another hotter looking babe.

wtf do i do to resolve this coldness?
confrront her that she's pissed i asked out her friend?
or just let things float the way it is?
 

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LOL.

I hooked up with my EX GF's best friend. She does not know about it though. Otherwise somebody would get killed.
 
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