"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why would a girl be mad at you, if you tried hooking up w/her girlfriend?

ScrewIt

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what reason would a girl be pissed at you if you tried hooking up with her girlfriend??

well i think my friend is pissed at me cause i tried, but failed, w/o letting her know.

normally a girl would not be pissed unless they like you right?
this ever happen to any of u before?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kineti[C]harm

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Or because they don't think you are material for her friend or because they feel left out of the loop.
 

ScrewIt

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Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Or because they don't think you are material for her friend or because they feel left out of the loop.
huh what? please explain.

i dunno i think my friend likes me. last month she asked me questions about if i ever had gf's and how much i had when we were alone shooting pool...probably a damn test, but i didnt answer how much, just made her guess.

before she got pissed, she'd ask me to hang out w/her + her friend. she puts down herself that she doesnt look attractive.
she called me up and let me borrow her textbook that i needed for a class, when i didnt even ask her to. she could've sold it to me but lent it instead.
 

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In your case it seems like this girl wants you. But a lot of times a girl who is strictly your friend will get jealous when you try to hook up with her friend because girls are jealous creatures by nature. They all crave attention and when they get it and then suddenly see it go away from them, even for a moment, they can't deal with it.



PIMP
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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So what would you do if your best friend hooks up with your ex gf?

Just something to think about....
 

JustDoItAlways

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Kitty Kats Kompete.

It doesn't matter if the chick likes you or not. They often don't want to see you hook up with another chick or, more accurately, get out competed by another kitty.

We guys are often lead to believe that chicks are happier when people hook-up, especially their lack-of-a-man girlfriends. Sometimes true, most times not.
 

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well i dont give a crap if they may be outcompeted by another hotter looking babe.

wtf do i do to resolve this coldness?
confrront her that she's pissed i asked out her friend?
or just let things float the way it is?
 

Paid Laid & Made

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LOL.

I hooked up with my EX GF's best friend. She does not know about it though. Otherwise somebody would get killed.
 
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