"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Why would a Don Juan waste his time Posting Here?
- Thread starter TruthHurts
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
~attrACTION~
Banned
Sounds like a pretty sweet day. I guess sometimes you never really know who is on the other side of the keyboard until you pry a bit. Good luck with the job hunt.TruthHurts said:I took a typing class back in highschool, in fact the best class i ever took, i type over 80 words a minute.. its takes me seconds to put up a post, and I think faster then i can speak or type.. (it is also why i dont bother to check grammer or spelling, just flowing)... right now I dont have a job, i saved money, I am partying... Here is what i did today... Woke up, played xbox360 and warcraft III, ate, then went to boxing gym, afterwords busted some game, talked to like 4 random girls, one is potential.. then went to poker game, won $175 dollars, got a little buzzed, then was going to hit up this bar, but was too buzzed and got some recently, and parents comming tomorrow, so need to clean up place.. Note, not a single day goes by that I dont throw some vibe at a girl...
also, keep in mind after being banned, havent had an outletlol yo, while i was sarging, some of the things we talked about here were popping up in my head...
Rock on. :rockon:
what kind of don juan is that? not to be mean, but i mean, i don't know.
it's just a little strange, if i go to fastseduction.com, the guys there on the forum is talking about their experiences getting laid and what to do better next time. i mean, they are actually puas!
here, most of these guys are basically still struggling with women, i mean just look at the threads in the discussion forum, even on the mature man part! i mean, if this site is go great, they say judge a tree by it's fruit, if this site is so great, wtf is all these guys still struggling for?
then the so called "advice-givers" and the "knowledgeable posters" are like truth hurts and they have no job and are bored! or maybe they are like last man standing and are 40 year old men who think all women are h0rs!
what's up with this site!
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I enjoy competition from time to time don't you?Francisco d'Anconia said:He would create competition?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TruthHurts
Don Juan
I cant say everything on here .......:nono:HUFFY2 said:
But lets just say I am planning a trip to Europe right now, if a girl says she wants to go to Aruba with me this weekend I would just go and get a package for two...
ultimatly its not the "job" but the ability to provide.. which usually is achieved by a job...
dude, i just don't get this.
what makes you a don juan? what?
you just made a post that says, "We are created as Don Juans because we post and discuss the topic a lot!"
That's basically what you just said right! You said that's how you learn!
a real pua doesn't learn how to get women by discussing theories with other guys, he goes out and learns from experiences. the discussions that he has with guys is just to tell them what's been happening to offer criticism to improve. but i don't see that on this site. on this site, everybody is talkin about this theory or that theory, do you see what i am saying?
look at the damn looks theory debate that was going on here, what the hell? maybe I should just go to another site
TruthHurts
Don Juan
your not reading everything..l no matter how much theory is discussed, it is discussed for the point of USING AND APPLYING it in real life...HUFFY2 said:
like Mike Tyson, before he got in the ring, he hit the speed bag, etc etc etc..
always room to improve... discuss the "theorys" and then GO AND APPLY IT...
for example today i was out of place in environment i was not used to picking up girls.. i was making way with a girl, and realized "i am being nice here, have to switch up gears and stick it to her" so i all of a sudden said "how about we get out of here and get a drink" real life application of theorys discussed..
harsher than intended but i'm too lazy to think of the nice words and grammars.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Two reasons:HUFFY2 said:truth hurts, i don't get this. answer this
if this site has the answer that will increase a guy's success with women, why then would not majority of these guys be outside of the forum getting laid?
why is most of the threads on this forums about some guy crying over how he's NOT having success with women? if this forum was great, why aren't most of these guys having success?
I'm confused.
1. Most people READ this stuff and never put it into action.
2. Most people focus on what the meatheads say instead of picking up on what the people who actually know what they are talking about say.
FurryFriend
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The purpose of this forum is to exchange ideas, suggestions, and maybe give a pep talk. I laugh at anyone suggesting that they're some sort of expert. Oh please!!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Ehem...PRMoon said:
I have no competition....
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
as Pook said, real men dont post on internet forums. they're out climbing mountains, swimming across channels, etc.
we are all here working to attain the level of true Don Juan. Few here have reached that level.
and besides, a true Don Juan does what he wants. if he wants to stick around, share ideas, and help teach a whole new generation of Don Juans, then he is doing what he wants
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Where's the sport in that?!!Francisco d'Anconia said:
Crushing the competition is half the fun!!!