"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why would a Don Juan waste his time Posting Here?
- Thread starter TruthHurts
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
~attrACTION~
Banned
Sounds like a pretty sweet day. I guess sometimes you never really know who is on the other side of the keyboard until you pry a bit. Good luck with the job hunt.TruthHurts said:I took a typing class back in highschool, in fact the best class i ever took, i type over 80 words a minute.. its takes me seconds to put up a post, and I think faster then i can speak or type.. (it is also why i dont bother to check grammer or spelling, just flowing)... right now I dont have a job, i saved money, I am partying... Here is what i did today... Woke up, played xbox360 and warcraft III, ate, then went to boxing gym, afterwords busted some game, talked to like 4 random girls, one is potential.. then went to poker game, won $175 dollars, got a little buzzed, then was going to hit up this bar, but was too buzzed and got some recently, and parents comming tomorrow, so need to clean up place.. Note, not a single day goes by that I dont throw some vibe at a girl...
also, keep in mind after being banned, havent had an outletlol yo, while i was sarging, some of the things we talked about here were popping up in my head...
Rock on. :rockon:
what kind of don juan is that? not to be mean, but i mean, i don't know.
it's just a little strange, if i go to fastseduction.com, the guys there on the forum is talking about their experiences getting laid and what to do better next time. i mean, they are actually puas!
here, most of these guys are basically still struggling with women, i mean just look at the threads in the discussion forum, even on the mature man part! i mean, if this site is go great, they say judge a tree by it's fruit, if this site is so great, wtf is all these guys still struggling for?
then the so called "advice-givers" and the "knowledgeable posters" are like truth hurts and they have no job and are bored! or maybe they are like last man standing and are 40 year old men who think all women are h0rs!
what's up with this site!
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I enjoy competition from time to time don't you?Francisco d'Anconia said:He would create competition?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TruthHurts
Don Juan
I cant say everything on here .......:nono:HUFFY2 said:
But lets just say I am planning a trip to Europe right now, if a girl says she wants to go to Aruba with me this weekend I would just go and get a package for two...
ultimatly its not the "job" but the ability to provide.. which usually is achieved by a job...
dude, i just don't get this.
what makes you a don juan? what?
you just made a post that says, "We are created as Don Juans because we post and discuss the topic a lot!"
That's basically what you just said right! You said that's how you learn!
a real pua doesn't learn how to get women by discussing theories with other guys, he goes out and learns from experiences. the discussions that he has with guys is just to tell them what's been happening to offer criticism to improve. but i don't see that on this site. on this site, everybody is talkin about this theory or that theory, do you see what i am saying?
look at the damn looks theory debate that was going on here, what the hell? maybe I should just go to another site
TruthHurts
Don Juan
your not reading everything..l no matter how much theory is discussed, it is discussed for the point of USING AND APPLYING it in real life...HUFFY2 said:
like Mike Tyson, before he got in the ring, he hit the speed bag, etc etc etc..
always room to improve... discuss the "theorys" and then GO AND APPLY IT...
for example today i was out of place in environment i was not used to picking up girls.. i was making way with a girl, and realized "i am being nice here, have to switch up gears and stick it to her" so i all of a sudden said "how about we get out of here and get a drink" real life application of theorys discussed..
harsher than intended but i'm too lazy to think of the nice words and grammars.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Two reasons:HUFFY2 said:truth hurts, i don't get this. answer this
if this site has the answer that will increase a guy's success with women, why then would not majority of these guys be outside of the forum getting laid?
why is most of the threads on this forums about some guy crying over how he's NOT having success with women? if this forum was great, why aren't most of these guys having success?
I'm confused.
1. Most people READ this stuff and never put it into action.
2. Most people focus on what the meatheads say instead of picking up on what the people who actually know what they are talking about say.
FurryFriend
Don Juan
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The purpose of this forum is to exchange ideas, suggestions, and maybe give a pep talk. I laugh at anyone suggesting that they're some sort of expert. Oh please!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Ehem...PRMoon said:
I have no competition....
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
as Pook said, real men dont post on internet forums. they're out climbing mountains, swimming across channels, etc.
we are all here working to attain the level of true Don Juan. Few here have reached that level.
and besides, a true Don Juan does what he wants. if he wants to stick around, share ideas, and help teach a whole new generation of Don Juans, then he is doing what he wants
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Where's the sport in that?!!Francisco d'Anconia said:
Crushing the competition is half the fun!!!