Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Why would a Don Juan waste his time Posting Here?

TruthHurts

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The answer is short and sweet...

You don't fully learn the subject, until you teach it!!!


:up:
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

Jon55

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Well, I guess a true Don Juan would also care to help others (to an extent).
 

TruthHurts

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no... a TRUE Don Juan doesnt care...

a TRUE Don Juan will lie through his teeth to sleep with anything in his path, and his good at it.. he can say that his a doctor when his not, he can say he has lots of money when he doesnt... he can adjust to all women, he dont care married or not, disabled or not... he lais em all... and he would not care about the AFC... all he would care about is f.cking his girl...

truth hurts...
 

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TruthHurts said:
The answer is short and sweet...

You don't fully learn the subject, until you teach it!!!


:up:
For the same reason Jesus was nailed to a cross ... Validation through attention.
 

Fred Da Head

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TruthHurts said:
no... a TRUE Don Juan doesnt care...

a TRUE Don Juan will lie through his teeth to sleep with anything in his path, and his good at it.. he can say that his a doctor when his not, he can say he has lots of money when he doesnt... he can adjust to all women, he dont care married or not, disabled or not... he lais em all... and he would not care about the AFC... all he would care about is f.cking his girl...

truth hurts...
You described a PUA, not a DJ.

A PUA just wants to **** because he doesn't love women; he just loves sex. (Who doesn't?)

A DJ wants to seduce women because he loves women and truly likes being with them; he loves sex as much as the PUA, but his primary motivation isn't just to have as much random sex as possible, it's to have sex with women he's truly attracted to, and not only physically. (Though a DJ will also have random sex just because it's fun.)

However, just the fact that you posted this is a pretty good proof that this website's focus has changed since the last time I posted regularly. It used to be about guys who wanted to seduce women; now it seems to be about just getting your little d**k into as many holes as possible, no matter how low-quality those women are.

To each their own, I guess.
 

Fred Da Head

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Docs said:
Oddly enough, if a Don Juan is being described as a PUA, making the two terms interchangable, what am I?
I haven't seen you in the field so I don't know yet. :p

Seriously though, it seems the difference has been lost while I was away, and to be honest it's driving me away from this site again.

A DJ seeks self-improvement and women are part of that; they compliment his search to improve his personality and his life. His validation is doing what he likes and what he wants to do. If he has a girlfriend, that's great. If he doesn't, he just enjoys the bachelor life.

A PUA dedicates himself so picking up women and having sex with them, or getting them into MLTRs and whatnot. Their interest is not to have a better life; they just want to fill a void in their soul (subconscious, or whatever you want to call it) with women and sex. Their sole source of validation is the women they pick up, and the guys they brag to about the women they pick up. I hate to revert to a book, but Neil Strauss pretty much nailed it in his book... PUAs who don't already have a fulfilling life (ie, who hate their life and just pick up women to fill a void) tend to become social robots. They can pick up women and sleep with them, but they can never have relationships with those women, or even with their male "friends."

To make it into a nice little sentence: A DJ wants women to compliment his life; a PUA wants women to be his life.
 

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Sorry big man, I'm tired and hurting so I'm going to head to bed really early tonight. I'm up for clubbing/bar hopping/general pick-uping Friday night, though. (But not Saturday, I'm on duty.)
 

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LJC said:
truth is that the clueless don't know what good advice is. If they did, they wouldn't be so clueless.
that is the conclusion i have come to recently...
 

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Friday night is only the day everyone gets paid, which means everyone will be ordering out, thus that means money.

Maybe after work though, give me a holla.

Duty, balls. I do ammo driver Saturday, :mad:
 

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Jon55 said:
Well, I guess a true Don Juan would also care to help others (to an extent).
He would create competition? :eek:
 

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Don Juan was a studier of women. He would be here researching his game.

Or spamming us about his new seduction seminars and e-books.

While suing us for using his name.
 

lookyoung

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TruthHurts said:
no... a TRUE Don Juan doesnt care...

a TRUE Don Juan will lie through his teeth to sleep with anything in his path, and his good at it.. he can say that his a doctor when his not, he can say he has lots of money when he doesnt... he can adjust to all women, he dont care married or not, disabled or not... he lais em all... and he would not care about the AFC... all he would care about is f.cking his girl...

truth hurts...

Nah lying is not my style. My stats are excellent and I never had to lie to no girl to fvck them. I tell them straight up. Lying just shows fear and insecurity.


After reading some of your posts you act like your a seduction master? Out of curiosity (no flame intended) how many girls have you banged???? Because the way your posting it better be close to or over triple digits.
 
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In modern day terminology - "Don Juan" was a pimp - no emotional ties!!! No one here is a true Don Juan - too emotional for that! I think Player_Supreme was the only one here who was a true Don Juan at one time in his life!!
 

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I think a real Don Juan posts here to keep his views fresh... If you always talk about something it'll be fresh in your mind. That way u can continue learning and working on yourself. Gradually becoming a Don Juan
 

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loco2chon said:
I think a real Don Juan posts here to keep his views fresh... If you always talk about something it'll be fresh in your mind. That way u can continue learning and working on yourself. Gradually becoming a Don Juan

Excellent post. I agree with this 100%. I post here because of this and for motivation.
 

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TruthHurts, what I really want to know is why you have 48.17 posts per day?

Unless you are chained to your bed or physically paralyzed with no where to go, I really suggest you stop posting occasionally and go outside. It may be hard to fathom, but there is really a world outside of the computer.
 

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~attrACTION~ said:
What I really want to know is why you have 48.17 posts per day?

Unless you are chained to your bed or physically paralyzed with no where to go, I really suggest you stop posting occasionally and go outside. It may be hard to fathom, but there is really a world outside of the computer.
I took a typing class back in highschool, in fact the best class i ever took, i type over 80 words a minute.. its takes me seconds to put up a post, and I think faster then i can speak or type.. (it is also why i dont bother to check grammer or spelling, just flowing)... right now I dont have a job, i saved money, I am partying... Here is what i did today... Woke up, played xbox360 and warcraft III, ate, then went to boxing gym, afterwords busted some game, talked to like 4 random girls, one is potential.. then went to poker game, won $175 dollars, got a little buzzed, then was going to hit up this bar, but was too buzzed and got some recently, and parents comming tomorrow, so need to clean up place.. Note, not a single day goes by that I dont throw some vibe at a girl...

also, keep in mind after being banned, havent had an outlet :) lol yo, while i was sarging, some of the things we talked about here were popping up in my head...
 

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truth hurts, i don't get this. answer this

if this site has the answer that will increase a guy's success with women, why then would not majority of these guys be outside of the forum getting laid?

why is most of the threads on this forums about some guy crying over how he's NOT having success with women? if this forum was great, why aren't most of these guys having success?

I'm confused. :confused:
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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