"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
why women won't post photo on datingsite?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten said:
Today...even a cell phone can take a picture. So, no posting a picture should be a HUGE warning sign. Although, I personally understand a woman NOT wanting to post a picture with the number of male losers posting in the Internet.
I will tell you more based on my "research" {wink} and experience. If the woman post ONLY one or two pictures...pay close attention to it. Especially if you notice those are the ONLY pictures she shares.
It means that those pictures might be very old and she managed to look good in them. ONLY them. If the pictures are from the neck up...she is very likely overweight (or fat or too skinny or shapeless).
It will also tell you that she has something attractive that she wants to showcase with that particular picture. It might not be obvious to the naked eye or inexperience man. A man that understand woman can see through that and compliment on that particular thing...while others will say the same "you look hot" or "you are pretty". My suggestion to men that don't have a lot of experience on this is not to even try...you might end up complimenting her on something she feels selfconscious about. Instead, learn and gain some experience.
Francisco d'Anconia said:Brief side note, just came across a profile where the woman admitted she was FAT(Fabulous and Thick). WTF???!! I'm guessing she spelled it wrong, she meant FATT (Fvcking Avoiding the Truth)!
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