Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why women give bad relationship advice

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Women give terrible advice! They provide you with the roadmap for becoming relationship material only. Take their advice and you’ll be an easily controlled beta male who has to wait months before sex, as opposed to an exciting alpha male who women have sex with right away. :flowers:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I made the mistake of following a woman's advice recently. She told me to do the opposite of everything I had learned at this site, and other advice given by MEN. It was a big mistake. No, it was good for me because I learned never to do it again.

I've come to see women's advice as a tricky way to remove betas from the gene pool. They don't know what they are doing but a woman giving advice to you on relationships is actually a big sh!t test, you will be removed from success with the girl and there will be more eligible suitors for women in general now that you're out of the picture.
 

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wait a minute mr wolf... didn't i say that if you didn't do it by date #3, then you were never gonna do it with them?
 

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getting good advice is one of the more rarer things in this world.. whether it be from men or women.

there are TONS of women who give horrible advice and who make horrible decisions with their own lives. id say 90% of women can't give you good advice on any topic ... dating, careers, buying a car, etc.

just like 90% of the men out there can't either.

most people in this world, of both genders, are sunk so deep into the matrix that their advice is going to be pretty much worthless.

but in general, yes, you need to be more weary of dating advice from women, because most of them are pissed off at various men in their life and their advice is going to be to behave the opposite of these men they are pissed off at. to become the 'man' their ex-bf should have been or whatever.

only flaw in the logic is that whatever their ex-bf was doing, he was doing something right cuz they were licking his balls every night.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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joekerr31 said:
but in general, yes, you need to be more weary of dating advice from women, because most of them are pissed off at various men in their life and their advice is going to be to behave the opposite of these men they are pissed off at. to become the 'man' their ex-bf should have been or whatever.
Exactly! Crap I see this so clearly now. Foolishly I followed this chick's advice, and she told me to do the opposite of what my gut told me to do, ie call the girl, let her know how much you care, CONVINCE her how much you care, don't be a challenge or the girl will get tired of you.

The same woman, was OBSESSED by a guy who: never returned her calls or emails, acted like he didn't like her all that much, just for sex, and didn't respond to her wanting some sort of commitment from him. :cuss:

You just nailed it Joekerr.... like most things, it only makes sense when it's too late. Lesson LEARNED. The Matrix kept me down most of my life but I will not be defeated by it.
 

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joekerr31 said:
but in general, yes, you need to be more weary of dating advice from women, because most of them are pissed off at various men in their life and their advice is going to be to behave the opposite of these men they are pissed off at. to become the 'man' their ex-bf should have been or whatever...
Funny but I posted something like this last night, where I see the same thing here. Bitter people do tend to project their own past scenarios onto current situations. Women need to be weary of advice from men, and men need to be wary of advice from women.
 

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It's not about bitter people or past scenarios.. It's about the guilt they put into their advice, after meeting that guy, fvcking him, and never hearing from him again.. They want d!ck from him again, yet can't have it..

The original post is a snipped from work of John Alexander. Master Don Juan.

Good job on trying to dismiss it. Hoes..
 

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Wow, Joekerr, I am really feeling you lately. This is the truth.
Has joeker given you permission to touch him?

:confused:
 

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iqqi said:
Funny but I posted something like this last night, where I see the same thing here. Bitter people do tend to project their own past scenarios onto current situations. Women need to be weary of advice from men, and men need to be wary of advice from women.

except that almost all advice from men is going to be "give him sex"

haha. that's pretty much our solution to everything - good sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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joekerr31 said:
except that almost all advice from men is going to be "give him sex"

haha. that's pretty much our solution to everything - good sex.

That is exactly what I was thinking, lol. Men don't know how to game men, and women don't know how to game women. The best a person can do is try and offer some perspective.
 

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iqqi said:
That is exactly what I was thinking, lol. Men don't know how to game men, and women don't know how to game women. The best a person can do is try and offer some perspective.

Perspective of what? How to st!ck my c0ck into your vagina quickly, or how to make you feel special? Come on! Women will never tell you how to get them laid quickly. They don't know that. They need a REAL man to guide them through the process. :flowers:
 
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