"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why women give bad relationship advice

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Women give terrible advice! They provide you with the roadmap for becoming relationship material only. Take their advice and you’ll be an easily controlled beta male who has to wait months before sex, as opposed to an exciting alpha male who women have sex with right away. :flowers:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I made the mistake of following a woman's advice recently. She told me to do the opposite of everything I had learned at this site, and other advice given by MEN. It was a big mistake. No, it was good for me because I learned never to do it again.

I've come to see women's advice as a tricky way to remove betas from the gene pool. They don't know what they are doing but a woman giving advice to you on relationships is actually a big sh!t test, you will be removed from success with the girl and there will be more eligible suitors for women in general now that you're out of the picture.
 

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wait a minute mr wolf... didn't i say that if you didn't do it by date #3, then you were never gonna do it with them?
 

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getting good advice is one of the more rarer things in this world.. whether it be from men or women.

there are TONS of women who give horrible advice and who make horrible decisions with their own lives. id say 90% of women can't give you good advice on any topic ... dating, careers, buying a car, etc.

just like 90% of the men out there can't either.

most people in this world, of both genders, are sunk so deep into the matrix that their advice is going to be pretty much worthless.

but in general, yes, you need to be more weary of dating advice from women, because most of them are pissed off at various men in their life and their advice is going to be to behave the opposite of these men they are pissed off at. to become the 'man' their ex-bf should have been or whatever.

only flaw in the logic is that whatever their ex-bf was doing, he was doing something right cuz they were licking his balls every night.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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joekerr31 said:
but in general, yes, you need to be more weary of dating advice from women, because most of them are pissed off at various men in their life and their advice is going to be to behave the opposite of these men they are pissed off at. to become the 'man' their ex-bf should have been or whatever.
Exactly! Crap I see this so clearly now. Foolishly I followed this chick's advice, and she told me to do the opposite of what my gut told me to do, ie call the girl, let her know how much you care, CONVINCE her how much you care, don't be a challenge or the girl will get tired of you.

The same woman, was OBSESSED by a guy who: never returned her calls or emails, acted like he didn't like her all that much, just for sex, and didn't respond to her wanting some sort of commitment from him. :cuss:

You just nailed it Joekerr.... like most things, it only makes sense when it's too late. Lesson LEARNED. The Matrix kept me down most of my life but I will not be defeated by it.
 

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joekerr31 said:
but in general, yes, you need to be more weary of dating advice from women, because most of them are pissed off at various men in their life and their advice is going to be to behave the opposite of these men they are pissed off at. to become the 'man' their ex-bf should have been or whatever...
Funny but I posted something like this last night, where I see the same thing here. Bitter people do tend to project their own past scenarios onto current situations. Women need to be weary of advice from men, and men need to be wary of advice from women.
 

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It's not about bitter people or past scenarios.. It's about the guilt they put into their advice, after meeting that guy, fvcking him, and never hearing from him again.. They want d!ck from him again, yet can't have it..

The original post is a snipped from work of John Alexander. Master Don Juan.

Good job on trying to dismiss it. Hoes..
 

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iqqi said:
Wow, Joekerr, I am really feeling you lately. This is the truth.
Has joeker given you permission to touch him?

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iqqi said:
Funny but I posted something like this last night, where I see the same thing here. Bitter people do tend to project their own past scenarios onto current situations. Women need to be weary of advice from men, and men need to be wary of advice from women.

except that almost all advice from men is going to be "give him sex"

haha. that's pretty much our solution to everything - good sex.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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joekerr31 said:
except that almost all advice from men is going to be "give him sex"

haha. that's pretty much our solution to everything - good sex.

That is exactly what I was thinking, lol. Men don't know how to game men, and women don't know how to game women. The best a person can do is try and offer some perspective.
 

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iqqi said:
That is exactly what I was thinking, lol. Men don't know how to game men, and women don't know how to game women. The best a person can do is try and offer some perspective.

Perspective of what? How to st!ck my c0ck into your vagina quickly, or how to make you feel special? Come on! Women will never tell you how to get them laid quickly. They don't know that. They need a REAL man to guide them through the process. :flowers:
 
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