"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why women give bad relationship advice

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Women give terrible advice! They provide you with the roadmap for becoming relationship material only. Take their advice and you’ll be an easily controlled beta male who has to wait months before sex, as opposed to an exciting alpha male who women have sex with right away. :flowers:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I made the mistake of following a woman's advice recently. She told me to do the opposite of everything I had learned at this site, and other advice given by MEN. It was a big mistake. No, it was good for me because I learned never to do it again.

I've come to see women's advice as a tricky way to remove betas from the gene pool. They don't know what they are doing but a woman giving advice to you on relationships is actually a big sh!t test, you will be removed from success with the girl and there will be more eligible suitors for women in general now that you're out of the picture.
 

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wait a minute mr wolf... didn't i say that if you didn't do it by date #3, then you were never gonna do it with them?
 

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getting good advice is one of the more rarer things in this world.. whether it be from men or women.

there are TONS of women who give horrible advice and who make horrible decisions with their own lives. id say 90% of women can't give you good advice on any topic ... dating, careers, buying a car, etc.

just like 90% of the men out there can't either.

most people in this world, of both genders, are sunk so deep into the matrix that their advice is going to be pretty much worthless.

but in general, yes, you need to be more weary of dating advice from women, because most of them are pissed off at various men in their life and their advice is going to be to behave the opposite of these men they are pissed off at. to become the 'man' their ex-bf should have been or whatever.

only flaw in the logic is that whatever their ex-bf was doing, he was doing something right cuz they were licking his balls every night.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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joekerr31 said:
but in general, yes, you need to be more weary of dating advice from women, because most of them are pissed off at various men in their life and their advice is going to be to behave the opposite of these men they are pissed off at. to become the 'man' their ex-bf should have been or whatever.
Exactly! Crap I see this so clearly now. Foolishly I followed this chick's advice, and she told me to do the opposite of what my gut told me to do, ie call the girl, let her know how much you care, CONVINCE her how much you care, don't be a challenge or the girl will get tired of you.

The same woman, was OBSESSED by a guy who: never returned her calls or emails, acted like he didn't like her all that much, just for sex, and didn't respond to her wanting some sort of commitment from him. :cuss:

You just nailed it Joekerr.... like most things, it only makes sense when it's too late. Lesson LEARNED. The Matrix kept me down most of my life but I will not be defeated by it.
 

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joekerr31 said:
but in general, yes, you need to be more weary of dating advice from women, because most of them are pissed off at various men in their life and their advice is going to be to behave the opposite of these men they are pissed off at. to become the 'man' their ex-bf should have been or whatever...
Funny but I posted something like this last night, where I see the same thing here. Bitter people do tend to project their own past scenarios onto current situations. Women need to be weary of advice from men, and men need to be wary of advice from women.
 

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It's not about bitter people or past scenarios.. It's about the guilt they put into their advice, after meeting that guy, fvcking him, and never hearing from him again.. They want d!ck from him again, yet can't have it..

The original post is a snipped from work of John Alexander. Master Don Juan.

Good job on trying to dismiss it. Hoes..
 

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Wow, Joekerr, I am really feeling you lately. This is the truth.
Has joeker given you permission to touch him?

:confused:
 

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iqqi said:
Funny but I posted something like this last night, where I see the same thing here. Bitter people do tend to project their own past scenarios onto current situations. Women need to be weary of advice from men, and men need to be wary of advice from women.

except that almost all advice from men is going to be "give him sex"

haha. that's pretty much our solution to everything - good sex.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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joekerr31 said:
except that almost all advice from men is going to be "give him sex"

haha. that's pretty much our solution to everything - good sex.

That is exactly what I was thinking, lol. Men don't know how to game men, and women don't know how to game women. The best a person can do is try and offer some perspective.
 

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iqqi said:
That is exactly what I was thinking, lol. Men don't know how to game men, and women don't know how to game women. The best a person can do is try and offer some perspective.

Perspective of what? How to st!ck my c0ck into your vagina quickly, or how to make you feel special? Come on! Women will never tell you how to get them laid quickly. They don't know that. They need a REAL man to guide them through the process. :flowers:
 
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