"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why were women so interested in Ted Bundy?

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So they knew of his wrongdoings, they knew he had committed appalling crime.

Yet they fell for him and so I've read many, many women sent him love letters, photos.

Yes he did have that 'look' about him and possibly maybe 'I don't give crap aura' along with is intelligence and sort of charisma.

Possibly fame arousal/bad boy arousal? Females are attracted to bad boys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Being a criminal multiplies your look, if you are ugly being a criminal makes you uglier while if you are hot it makes you hotter toward women.

Those who benefit the most are average to good looking guys.
 

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Same reason you have a lot of thirsty dudes wanting to be with Casey Anthony.
 

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Look at Charles Manson, he had tons of women obsessed with before and after incarceration. A few years ago they had the "hot mug shot guy" Jeremy Meeks who by chance took a good photo but is actually not particularly attractive.

The common denominator is the fact that they are famous and their notoriety probably adds to this. Athletes, actors and all forms of celebrities also have women obsessed with them. These women create this image in their head that there is something magical about these men when in reality there isn't anything particularly special about them outside of fame.

I remember a few years ago during the Aaron Hernandez case, I'm originally from MA, and there were women on social media saying how he should be released because he was hot and a good guy lol.

What you need to understand is that these women are just bat**** crazy, there really isn't any other explanation for it. It's a bit comical but also concerning, as many of these women are the ones who get knocked up by bad boys and the rest of us have to foot in for the welfare checks.
 

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There are web sites for women to "Write a prisoner" in prison. They are usually unmoved by the beta types and stay away from them.

They will write to a prisoner. Get into a "relationship" with them and then be waiting for them at the gate when they are released.

It's a bigger thing than you think. "Dated" one of these women for a couple of weeks. Do not be nice to them. Grudge fuk them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There are web sites for women to "Write a prisoner" in prison. They are usually unmoved by the beta types and stay away from them.

They will write to a prisoner. Get into a "relationship" with them and then be waiting for them at the gate when they are released.

It's a bigger thing than you think. "Dated" one of these women for a couple of weeks. Do not be nice to them. Grudge fuk them.
Exactly, which is something I mentioned on my previous post on here. These women are just bat**** crazy lol but as you said it's way more common than you would think.
 

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Exactly, which is something I mentioned on my previous post on here. These women are just bat**** crazy lol but as you said it's way more common than you would think.
Yeah she wanted me to drag her around by her hair and slap her. Naturally I didn't slap her hard and it irritated her. It's a different dynamic than just B-D-S-M.
It's like a sex slave on steroids. At least for this one. Advance at your own risk. Not all women want to be dragged around by their hair. LOL
It's serious caveman stuff
 

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Yeah she wanted me to drag her around by her hair and slap her. Naturally I didn't slap her hard and it irritated her. It's a different dynamic than just B-D-S-M.
It's like a sex slave on steroids. At least for this one. Advance at your own risk. Not all women want to be dragged around by their hair. LOL
It's serious caveman stuff
Wait, this woman you went out with was also writing to bad boys in prison and waiting for them when they would be released?
 

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Wait, this woman you went out with was also writing to bad boys in prison and waiting for them when they would be released?
Nah. She told me how he cheated on her before she met me. Not that I would care. I don’t do BF/GF
Of course she was still writing them. Lol
No proof of course but I don’t care.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I guess before and after the women fell for him due to his nice masculine manly looks as well as his chameleon like persona/projection, intelligence to boost.
 
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There is a certain class of women that adore dangerous men . When I was on OLD I would put up the most psychotic profile picture I could.I would get a lot of messages more than a smiling picture would.All of these women loved crime books,crime shows,they all loved forensic files the TV show.Now you have to have good looks to pull this off.Ted Bundy was basically just doing cold approach like a badass.
 

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Ted Bundy was a master observer. There is an experiment that has been successfully repeated many times over.

A predator can identify prey (victim type people) with a glance. A woman who has the persona that she will fight to the death, Bundy would bypass and eliminate as a possible meal.

Predators are successful in what they do because they can glance at a street full of people and pick out the mice.
 

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There is a certain class of women that adore dangerous men . When I was on OLD I would put up the most psychotic profile picture I could.I would get a lot of messages more than a smiling picture would.All of these women loved crime books,crime shows,they all loved forensic files the TV show.Now you have to have good looks to pull this off.Ted Bundy was basically just doing cold approach like a badass.
There have actually been some studies that show smiling makes men appear less attractive to woman compared to a more brooding look. I watched a video a while ago where they had actors portraying a scene in a bar, where the man approaches and the woman is conversing with him. During the video they had one scene where the male actor was leaning closely, smiling a lot and making a lot of eye contact. The other scene the same actor would make eye contact but not smile much, had a bit more distance between himself and the female actor and he would also look around the room a bit as if he was slightly disinterested. The women found that in the first scene the male actor was a bit more feminine, more open and agreeable but not as attractive compared to the second scene, where they found him to be more dominant and attractive.

A lot of this stuff is subconscious but naturally there will be a spectrum of what women are going for. Some women find the hypermasculine and domineering bad boy type as VERY attractive whilst others may want something more in the middle. From my observations, the women attracted to the bad boy types generally have a lot of issues of their own.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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