"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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why was this post moved to anything else?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Shhhh... it's about online dating and it didn't get closed. You should rejoice.

I don't know the reason why it was moved but it might just be because it's about myspace. I think some other threads about that site are in Anything Else already... same with the hotornot, facethejury, and wouldyouhitthis threads that I suppose could also technically be about getting women too.

*shrug* Maybe I should just shut up because I wasn't the person who moved it, so I shouldn't try to speak for them.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Shhhh... it's about online dating and it didn't get closed. You should rejoice.
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Nuff said
 
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i dont get it

you can talk about online dating???

weird though, i reposted it and they changed the subject on me and put "what are your experiences with myspace (online dating)?"
 
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Originally posted by crackhead
i dont get it

you can talk about online dating???

weird though, i reposted it and they changed the subject on me and put "what are your experiences with myspace (online dating)?"
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It looks like the moderator who moved it back to Discussion wanted to make the title merge with the post since you asked about "myspace.com"

Other than that, I have no idea.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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