"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why was this post moved to anything else?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shhhh... it's about online dating and it didn't get closed. You should rejoice.

I don't know the reason why it was moved but it might just be because it's about myspace. I think some other threads about that site are in Anything Else already... same with the hotornot, facethejury, and wouldyouhitthis threads that I suppose could also technically be about getting women too.

*shrug* Maybe I should just shut up because I wasn't the person who moved it, so I shouldn't try to speak for them.
 
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
Shhhh... it's about online dating and it didn't get closed. You should rejoice.
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Nuff said
 
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i dont get it

you can talk about online dating???

weird though, i reposted it and they changed the subject on me and put "what are your experiences with myspace (online dating)?"
 
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Originally posted by crackhead
i dont get it

you can talk about online dating???

weird though, i reposted it and they changed the subject on me and put "what are your experiences with myspace (online dating)?"
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It looks like the moderator who moved it back to Discussion wanted to make the title merge with the post since you asked about "myspace.com"

Other than that, I have no idea.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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