"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why there is a strong correlation between social media presence and success with women.

Good Gao

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I get it, everyone hates social media on places like these for whatever reasons they might but I have come to share with you a fact I've noticed over recent years, there is a strong correlation between a guy's social media presence and his success with hot girls.

Could be a situation where social media success is just a byproduct of high value, a guy who is handsome, wealthy, and socially in demand is going to have more followers on Instagram. So you could easily argue that these guys are doing well because they were high value to begin with but here are my thoughts, social media success accelerates that.

That means with all else being equal, a high value guy with a stellar social media presence will always beat out a high value guy without one.

Because social media is modern day cool and DHV.

You go on fancy trips, have great people in your life, a lot of followers, get a lot of likes on your pics, and have a life full of hot girls, girls genuinely get curious about you.

When a lot of younger women are going through their phones, they are trying to check out what is trending and who is doing what. Younger hot girls are genuinely curious about what caused so many people to follow you and like your stuff, they want in on that lifestyle. What happens is you have created a lifestyle that women want to be a part of, even if it is just for a day.

"But it is so fake, I rather keep it real!"

It is not fake as much as it is being good at marketing yourself.

Even a lesser product of the two products can outperform a better product because the marketing was great.

Social media is modern day marketing, you market yourself. The guys who kill it on there are great are marketing themselves and displaying status. Could it be fake? Absolutely, but hot girls don't care because, they're hot girls!

They don't care for authenticity or "deep" you are as a person, they care for being a part of an amazing life and unfortunately, reserved hermit is not cutting it.

But can you slay if you aren't on social media?

The answer is yes, absolutely.

If you're a really handsome guy, social media will help you but you can get hot girls anyways.

If you're a rich guy with a lot of nightlife connections, social media will help but you get hot girls anyways.

Social media only grants more opportunities which in the millennial age cannot be denied.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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There isn't. You just make sh!t up to support what you want to believe.
 
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