"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why the homotrend is rising

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IamMyownMan

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SPEAKEASY-dude who really gives a shcit? I cracked a joke in jest above. If you have a lot going on in your life there is no reason to worry about two dudes choosing to bone unless you are more interested than you try to portray with your 'questions'.

When you continue to discuss dudes boneing and why it bothers you or imply that you are worried about societies downfall because of dudes coming out of the closet, your extended commentary on the subject comes across to an objective bystander as: FULL GAY.

Hell it wouldn't be a surprise if you are a closeted 'Mo since you are so interested in the subject.

I think a term that our members who are inclined to study psychology would recoginze is: COGNITIVE DISSONANCE. You are now the resident, Larry "Toe Tapping" Craig or Ted Haggerty. You rant how you are appalled, yet choose to continue discussing the subject ad nauseum.

If you are worried about your kids, turn off the t.v. and restrict their vision of the world through your own judgemental censorship. While the first may yield great benefits the latter will only lead to an insular view of the world. Maybe that latter is your objective, I don't care, but there are people who can help you accept yourself if your real concern is related more to your own personal life experience.

I don't know why people are gay but I could care less, so my point is why discuss it till you are blue in the face? Hell, science changes so rapidly, when they discover the "reason" it will likely change within a generation or two.
 
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