Why the hell do some chicks do a 180 on you after sex?

[nismo-4]

I've had it happen a lot. I get the girl, I hit it, then the next time I speak to her, she's totally uninterested in me. WTF is going on here?

Any of you guys experienced this?

 

[AlexTheGreat]

Was the sex any good? Did you call her afterwards to not make her feel like a slut? What was your rapport with those chicks before sex?

 

[Jitterbug]

One reason is Buyer's Remorse, or that it was only meant to be an ONS.

She might also act uninterested to stop herself from developing feelings and turning it into a relationship, as it inconveniences her at the time.

I've had a couple of girls like that, who were going to go overseas for work/study for a year or so, and didn't want it to develop further, so they appeared cold towards me. However, when they came back home, they changed their attitude completely - getting in touch, checking whether I have a GF, if I'm still into them, acting jealous when I pay attention to other girls etc - because now they are in the right position to start a relationship. Except that I'm not always there for their convenience.

 

[Scars]

Did you contact her right after? Or did you wait for her to contact you?

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

The only times a girl hasn't wanted to be in AT LEAST a casual relationship with me after we've had sex was when the sex was pretty awful.. which hasn't happened since the after of 18.

Become an amazing lover, and she'll fall for you faster than she can take a ****.

 

[nismo-4]

Did you contact her right after? Or did you wait for her to contact you?

We met up a couple days later. But what would have been the better option?

 

[Nexus Polaris]

Perhaps I'm looking at this from the wrong perspective here, but who cares? As long as she's not pulling a 180 before sex it sounds like a pretty good deal. After sex, she might even be doing you a favor.

 

[escaleraroyal]

u need more rapport

 

[Dante420]

I've heard people speak on this saying it's a way for insecure girls to see how you react and if you care, if it gets like that you mine as well just throw yourself out there and show some caring because if it doesn't work then it's over, unless she has friends you wanna get with.

 

[nismo-4]

u need more rapport

Then why da hell did I get laid in the first place? BTW I didn't flash a Mercedes or a Rolex.

 

[Dante420]

Then why da hell did I get laid in the first place? BTW I didn't flash a Mercedes or a Rolex.

You can get laid on day one with a girl, that's usually what brings up these 180s. Cause rather then thinking about it then getting with you, there getting with you and then thinking about it.

 

[escaleraroyal]

Then why da hell did I get laid in the first place? BTW I didn't flash a Mercedes or a Rolex.

then she was just looking for a one night stand.