"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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why so few hot babes work in companies?

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I have worked in an office for 6 companies over the past 15 years & I cant believe how few HB's have worked at them. And i work in So Calif! There has been a few HB6 & HB7's, but no hot, skinny babes. I go to a mall/niteclub/starbucks & there are hundreds of hotties. Where in the hell do they all work? I asked my friend that works in HR & he said "companies dont like to hire hot babes because guys will waste valuable company time flirting with them. They also will miss more work because they have a more active social life compared to an average girl". I just laughed. It might have some validity...I also think that most babes (HB8-HB10's) either have a rich dude supporting them or they are a stripper/model & they dont need to get up early & work in some stupid office job. I think the show The Office really sums up what most women look like in a company. Boring, ugly, dull & lifeless. What are your opinions?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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correct conclusion

HB are more self centered and don't take advice from parents to become career minded or goto the medical field.

They take the easy way by being hostesses getting 50 dollar tips and messing with the employees there or being strippers
 

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Most are students with part time jobs. Ever notice most of those HBs are young? As they get older and have babies, their looks quickly fade. I wouldn't be surprised if those 6/7s (and lower) were 8/9s when they were 20 years old.
 

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Originally posted by bbestar
correct conclusion

HB are more self centered and don't take advice from parents to become career minded or goto the medical field.

They take the easy way by being hostesses getting 50 dollar tips and messing with the employees there or being strippers
Haha...youre funny
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are you working in an engineering company? Most engineering women tend to be butch.

I've worked at various offices (and been to friends office parties), and there are plenty of hot women. Especially at law firms.
 

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I have a theory..

alot not all, but alot of hot, seriously smokin hot women, aren't worried about school when they are in school, so when school gets out, and it's time to get a real job, they aren't really all that qualified, hence why alot work at bars, resturants, etc.

that's not always true, but I have seen in happena couple of times already and I am just 22.. gir's are so concerned with being hot and being "it" they forget there is a life after graduation
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Are you working in an engineering company? Most engineering women tend to be butch.

I've worked at various offices (and been to friends office parties), and there are plenty of hot women. Especially at law firms.
Yes, I do work in the engineering dept for these companies. But even the girls that work in sales, production control, accounting, purchasing are all plain, ugly & boring. Alot of them are fatties age 35-60....its getting depressing. I think girls in the banking/finance field would be a lot hotter?
 

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The young women that work at the Big 5 accounting firms and consulting firms (and companies like that) are HAWT.

Girls in business suits turn me on like no other.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I read somewhere that most guys don't like girls in high executive positions. They would be more attracted to a girl in a lower position.

I think the reason, for me anyway, is that a lot of these go-getters show a lot of manly-traits. I used to watch that show the Apprentice, and the women are so "alpha" and high soceity I can't stand it.
 

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I was once in charge of hiring for a business and the reason I stopped hiring the attractive girls was because they were almost always unreliable. The attractive girls were the ones who'd always call in sick, especially on the weekends. I found that unattractive girls were far more reliable.
 

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Nanci Griffith has a cool song about the choices attractive women sometimes make in life, called "Drive in Movies and Dashboard lights"
Do a Google search on the title, in quotes, and it'll come right up.
 

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Because women are, by nature, incompetent, unwitty, lazy,. . . pretty stupid actually.

:up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MVP said:
I read somewhere that most guys don't like girls in high executive positions. They would be more attracted to a girl in a lower position.

I think the reason, for me anyway, is that a lot of these go-getters show a lot of manly-traits. I used to watch that show the Apprentice, and the women are so "alpha" and high soceity I can't stand it.
Not only manly traits, but they tend to look it too.
 

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When I had a so so job, I used to get lot's of pvssy. Now that I've become a proffesional, I left all the hotties behind.

If there is ever one in the office, she has no character as all she wants to do is fock her way to the top and most companies don't put up with sh!t like that.
 

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I seen hot babes work in marketing or journalism. Most TV stations hire hotbabes as anchor woman to go on live TV. Stations want ratings. The fastest way to get rattings for a program is to put a hot babe on the air.

Hot babe also work in sales of pharmaceutical companies, for instance. They also work in investment banking. I seen hot babes work in Toronto investment sector in downtown office. They look hot in tight skirts & high heels.
 
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