jeffthechef
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Lots of people are posting questions on whether/how/when/where they should go about getting a girl.
I did too, but we must question what is inhibiting us from obtaniing that ALPHA disposition/philosophy and simply gaming every girl we have one infinitesimal amount of interest in?
Here's a list of things that prevented me previously.
1. Fear of rejection.
2. Fear of what other people around me might be thinking as i game a girl.
Number one wasn't so big. Number two was. To obtain the ALPHA philosophy, which would consequently destroy any fears, we could think the Buddhist way.
Non-attached attachment, nothingness, and the realization of the self and others.
Consider this:
1. Do we all really exist? Skipping over the lengthy and detailed argument, yes we do. We know death is imminent; thus, we know we are living currently.
2. How do we exist? Simply as the imitations of others and through the connections we share with everyone.
3. What leads to suffering? Attachment. Obssession.
4. Should we have a **** it all attitude since we're all essentially nothing?
No, because you'll prolly do something completely dumb.
5. Should we overanalyze every little ****ty thing? No. Humans have spidey senses; however, most humans don't practice and train this ability. If you go out and game girls often, you'll be able to sense the attraction, which prevents you from having to look for IOI's. This is of course if you're trained and not naive.
6. Do we really have spidey senses? Yes, we do. Humans also exist through the interconnectedness of personal desire. This desire is a sort of spirit and will. We dominate/destroy/own objects to exert our will and dominance over it. This proves our individuality to ourselves and others giving us a sense of self. Two humans, both with desire, stranded in a desert find a peanut butter sandwich. Human number one realizes that human number two wants it as much as he does because they realize each other's individuality. One will eventually get it, while the other has to succumb to the ALPHA's will. So why doesn't one of them think about sharing it? Because he cannot risk going about this situation softly, it is a life and death struggle. However, after one gets the sandwich, he will share part of it. But why is he willing ot share it now? Because he already knows that his dominance is known by the defeated. Same with women. We think, "She wants me." or "She's not interested."
She is also thinking, "He wants me." or "He thinks i'm ugly."
This is because we already know we are attracted to them or not attracted, thus we realize the other must be thinking it too. Sex is one the main aspects of human life and has been since the cavemen. Once we realize they are thinking it too. We must approach the girl and find out for sure whether she's interested or not. Based on this experiment, you can begin to draw observations and a feel for what's going on. After numerous experiments, you become a professional and thus need not the AFC fears to impede you.
You may not agree...That's fine.
You may not understand...Ask.
If you have any other fears, post em so we can figure out the solution.
I did too, but we must question what is inhibiting us from obtaniing that ALPHA disposition/philosophy and simply gaming every girl we have one infinitesimal amount of interest in?
Here's a list of things that prevented me previously.
1. Fear of rejection.
2. Fear of what other people around me might be thinking as i game a girl.
Number one wasn't so big. Number two was. To obtain the ALPHA philosophy, which would consequently destroy any fears, we could think the Buddhist way.
Non-attached attachment, nothingness, and the realization of the self and others.
Consider this:
1. Do we all really exist? Skipping over the lengthy and detailed argument, yes we do. We know death is imminent; thus, we know we are living currently.
2. How do we exist? Simply as the imitations of others and through the connections we share with everyone.
3. What leads to suffering? Attachment. Obssession.
4. Should we have a **** it all attitude since we're all essentially nothing?
No, because you'll prolly do something completely dumb.
5. Should we overanalyze every little ****ty thing? No. Humans have spidey senses; however, most humans don't practice and train this ability. If you go out and game girls often, you'll be able to sense the attraction, which prevents you from having to look for IOI's. This is of course if you're trained and not naive.
6. Do we really have spidey senses? Yes, we do. Humans also exist through the interconnectedness of personal desire. This desire is a sort of spirit and will. We dominate/destroy/own objects to exert our will and dominance over it. This proves our individuality to ourselves and others giving us a sense of self. Two humans, both with desire, stranded in a desert find a peanut butter sandwich. Human number one realizes that human number two wants it as much as he does because they realize each other's individuality. One will eventually get it, while the other has to succumb to the ALPHA's will. So why doesn't one of them think about sharing it? Because he cannot risk going about this situation softly, it is a life and death struggle. However, after one gets the sandwich, he will share part of it. But why is he willing ot share it now? Because he already knows that his dominance is known by the defeated. Same with women. We think, "She wants me." or "She's not interested."
She is also thinking, "He wants me." or "He thinks i'm ugly."
This is because we already know we are attracted to them or not attracted, thus we realize the other must be thinking it too. Sex is one the main aspects of human life and has been since the cavemen. Once we realize they are thinking it too. We must approach the girl and find out for sure whether she's interested or not. Based on this experiment, you can begin to draw observations and a feel for what's going on. After numerous experiments, you become a professional and thus need not the AFC fears to impede you.
You may not agree...That's fine.
You may not understand...Ask.
If you have any other fears, post em so we can figure out the solution.