"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Why should I add you to facebook? Just out of curiosity? " How would YOU reply back to this?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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* I will like your posts and selfie pictures.
** I will give you attention and increase the attention you are already getting.
*** I will boost your ego.
**** I will be a wingman and help you land an alpha male.
***** I will give you my shoulder to cry on when a man dumps you.
 

marmel75

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Don't add chicks that aren't your girlfriend to Facebook. I have no answer because I'd never advise doing this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I permanently deleted all of my social media about 2 years ago. If I still had facebook though, I would prolly respond with "why not?" I tend to reply with simple answers to tests like these.
 

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Because nothing good comes from it.
Few years ago I sat next to this girl in class and she told me to add her on FB. I sent a request, she never accepted and I came back the next week and she wouldn't sit near me again. This girl had fairly high interest to begin with too.
Another one sent me a friend request, I didn't respond to it and she flaked on our date the next day.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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dude99

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"Why should I add you to facebook? Just out of curiosity? "


What is a sexy comeback for this line?

This is what a girl told me right now........so what would YOU say?

@ImTheDoubleGreatest! @marmel75 @RangerMIke @cola @dude99 @logicallefty @MrWood @
Me personally if a girl asked "why should i....." i wouldn't give it an answer. Let her stew. I would just say "alright." Then move on.

Unless this girl is a wife or an already steady you do not want her on your friend list. Keep her at a distance and keep mystery your secret weapon
 

RangerMIke

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Nothing move on. Facebook BS is a waste of time. I don't do this but if I walked up to a woman and asked for her number and she asked me why... I would just say "You don't know? You're not very smart, never
Mind", and walk away.

Just cancel the friend request and say nothing.... if she's interested she'll ask you why you did that.... if not you would have been wasting your time anyway.
 

2Rocky

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"So you can look at my baby pictures and see what our children will look like....."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MillionBillionaire

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* I will like your posts and selfie pictures.
** I will give you attention and increase the attention you are already getting.
*** I will boost your ego.
**** I will be a wingman and help you land an alpha male.
***** I will give you my shoulder to cry on when a man dumps you.
Lol.. I know right

I wouldn't even respond to such a stupid question.. have some self respect and move on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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