Nexus Polaris
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Igetit! just explained it better than I could have.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PappyS said:Or you could just get visual images of attractive women and jack yourself to it.
But yeah women generally have way more options than men do.
So true.. i like to say that an average woman has options akin to those of a celebrity male. which is why there are so many transvestite males.. Many men would prefer to live as a messed up looking women a than an average looking males cause they get more attention and options that way.. This is all due to the overpopulation of males and shortage of females.. Many men are taking what ever they can get in the form of 400 lbs. fatties and many men are becoming bisexual when they cant find women.. sad times..dicod3r said:Mens options vs Attractive Women options.... laughable to even compare
I don't give a fvck who you are, how high your status is as a male, you will NEVER come close to having anything close to the options any regular attractive woman has at her disposal... Any man disagreeing here needs to be medically examined
I'm not talking about planting seeds and then flowering them when we need to, which requires WORK... that's not a viable option... if the girl is hormonal or going through a bad time, its going to take ALOT of work... versus a hot woman who can pick up the phone and I don't care if ur mother just died, can have ur arse over her place in 5 minutes to lick her vaginko
Now this isn't to say you can't get some quality arse and often, but please don't compare yourself to a female... the arse they can get without even trying is insane
Vaginko rules the world, to deny this is utter futility
-Cod3r
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Adding to the complication is that the left and right halves of the brain are more connected in women. Electric signals go back and forth between the logical and the emotional halves even for problems that should require a strictly logical analysis.DonGorgon said:1. The female brain is fully capable of all the same logical though patters as the male brain. BUt the difference in their chemical and hormonal composition is what causes the apparent difference in their modus.
We need some photographs to illustrate this:dicod3r said:I'm not talking about planting seeds and then flowering them when we need to, which requires WORK... that's not a viable option... if the girl is hormonal or going through a bad time, its going to take ALOT of work... versus a hot woman who can pick up the phone and I don't care if ur mother just died, can have ur arse over her place in 5 minutes to lick her vaginko
Yup its all about demand and supply.. Gay men are the only men immuned to the power of PU$$Y.. and even many of them still dip in some every now and then..Veridin said:We need some photographs to illustrate this:
1. American woman:
http://img.shirtcity.com/grafiken/graphic_cache/500x500/353732_c4_1.png
2. Two gals in Brussels:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/67/281456467_65877eff89.jpg
3. Who says Asian women can't join in on the fun?
http://blog.4amexpat.com/uploaded_images/18082007(003)-775727-775808.jpg
4. Woot, more cammo pants:
http://steviepua.com/journal/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/make-the-food.jpg