Nexus Polaris
Senior Don Juan
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Igetit! just explained it better than I could have.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PappyS said:Or you could just get visual images of attractive women and jack yourself to it.
But yeah women generally have way more options than men do.
So true.. i like to say that an average woman has options akin to those of a celebrity male. which is why there are so many transvestite males.. Many men would prefer to live as a messed up looking women a than an average looking males cause they get more attention and options that way.. This is all due to the overpopulation of males and shortage of females.. Many men are taking what ever they can get in the form of 400 lbs. fatties and many men are becoming bisexual when they cant find women.. sad times..dicod3r said:Mens options vs Attractive Women options.... laughable to even compare
I don't give a fvck who you are, how high your status is as a male, you will NEVER come close to having anything close to the options any regular attractive woman has at her disposal... Any man disagreeing here needs to be medically examined
I'm not talking about planting seeds and then flowering them when we need to, which requires WORK... that's not a viable option... if the girl is hormonal or going through a bad time, its going to take ALOT of work... versus a hot woman who can pick up the phone and I don't care if ur mother just died, can have ur arse over her place in 5 minutes to lick her vaginko
Now this isn't to say you can't get some quality arse and often, but please don't compare yourself to a female... the arse they can get without even trying is insane
Vaginko rules the world, to deny this is utter futility
-Cod3r
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Adding to the complication is that the left and right halves of the brain are more connected in women. Electric signals go back and forth between the logical and the emotional halves even for problems that should require a strictly logical analysis.DonGorgon said:1. The female brain is fully capable of all the same logical though patters as the male brain. BUt the difference in their chemical and hormonal composition is what causes the apparent difference in their modus.
We need some photographs to illustrate this:dicod3r said:I'm not talking about planting seeds and then flowering them when we need to, which requires WORK... that's not a viable option... if the girl is hormonal or going through a bad time, its going to take ALOT of work... versus a hot woman who can pick up the phone and I don't care if ur mother just died, can have ur arse over her place in 5 minutes to lick her vaginko
Yup its all about demand and supply.. Gay men are the only men immuned to the power of PU$$Y.. and even many of them still dip in some every now and then..Veridin said:We need some photographs to illustrate this:
1. American woman:
http://img.shirtcity.com/grafiken/graphic_cache/500x500/353732_c4_1.png
2. Two gals in Brussels:
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/67/281456467_65877eff89.jpg
3. Who says Asian women can't join in on the fun?
http://blog.4amexpat.com/uploaded_images/18082007(003)-775727-775808.jpg
4. Woot, more cammo pants:
http://steviepua.com/journal/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/make-the-food.jpg