You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
interesting.Burroughs said:
I think your missing the point. It's more the subculture of political progressive, ironic claiming, liberal arts degree oxygen thieves associated with the skinny jean.FairShake said:I blame RUN DMC and NWA.
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rR_tUUmxVf8/TFIIcZZ8JlI/AAAAAAAAAiY/1KiLw48LmSw/s1600/rundmc.jpg
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_7pS1-E6fo...cube_easy_e_dr_dre_arabian_prince_1987_01.jpg
For what it's worth "skinny" jeans look better than the baggy jeans I grew up with. Actually alot of what people call too tight is really just right.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
( . )( . ) said:I think your missing the point. It's more the subculture of political progressive, ironic claiming, liberal arts degree oxygen thieves associated with the skinny jean.
Those are not "skinny jeans" NWA are wearing either. I should know I used to love those niggas wit tude back in my crappy liberal self hating single mothered upbringing days, like every other Western white kid.
they are already wearing dresses and skits broBurroughs said:Yup
NWA wore 501s like everyone with half a brain can see
what I'm talking about is this faggot sh!t http://www.lolbrary.com/fullsize/389/fullsize-is-it-just-me-or-is-bieber-wearing-a-diaper-40389.jpg
Of course Bieber is a hand puppet being pimped out by David Geffen and the rest of the hollywood faggot bunch.
aligning with FR principles jeans will become tighter and tighter until men are wearing skirts fully becoming women to appease women....and no this ain't no viking sh!t
think it won't happen?
think again http://i.perezhilton.com/wp-content...est-leather-skirt-who-wore-it-better__oPt.jpg (that ain't no kilt![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.