You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
interesting.Burroughs said:
I think your missing the point. It's more the subculture of political progressive, ironic claiming, liberal arts degree oxygen thieves associated with the skinny jean.FairShake said:I blame RUN DMC and NWA.
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_rR_tUUmxVf8/TFIIcZZ8JlI/AAAAAAAAAiY/1KiLw48LmSw/s1600/rundmc.jpg
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_7pS1-E6fo...cube_easy_e_dr_dre_arabian_prince_1987_01.jpg
For what it's worth "skinny" jeans look better than the baggy jeans I grew up with. Actually alot of what people call too tight is really just right.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
( . )( . ) said:I think your missing the point. It's more the subculture of political progressive, ironic claiming, liberal arts degree oxygen thieves associated with the skinny jean.
Those are not "skinny jeans" NWA are wearing either. I should know I used to love those niggas wit tude back in my crappy liberal self hating single mothered upbringing days, like every other Western white kid.
they are already wearing dresses and skits broBurroughs said:Yup
NWA wore 501s like everyone with half a brain can see
what I'm talking about is this faggot sh!t http://www.lolbrary.com/fullsize/389/fullsize-is-it-just-me-or-is-bieber-wearing-a-diaper-40389.jpg
Of course Bieber is a hand puppet being pimped out by David Geffen and the rest of the hollywood faggot bunch.
aligning with FR principles jeans will become tighter and tighter until men are wearing skirts fully becoming women to appease women....and no this ain't no viking sh!t
think it won't happen?
think again http://i.perezhilton.com/wp-content...est-leather-skirt-who-wore-it-better__oPt.jpg (that ain't no kilt![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.