eurofile007
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This post is brilliant and says it all:
http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=19
I always hated the idea of having to learn PUA techniques just to get dates and companionship. Even though the behavior of many American women disgusts me, I don't want to play manipulative games and cause needless suffering.
There seem to be precious few options for American guys.
1. Bars and clubs are horrible places to meet girlfriends, they're only really good for one night stand type deals, which can result in emotional harm to both partners, which leads me to my point 2.
2. Being upfront with a girl and telling her you're only interested in no-strings attached, one night type deals is likely to turn many of them off.
3. Approaching people in public is frowned upon.
4. Even people who share your interests, whether meet over the internet or at social functions, may be extremely obese or have emotional imbalances which render them unsuitable partners.
4. Getting married (if you're a man) carries with it the very real risk of losing your children and savings, along with enduring all other sorts of heartache.
5. Telling you're girlfriend you don't want to get married in America is likely to sour the relationship.
6. People eventually growing apart in their romances is to be expected, but outright dumping and shunning someone with whom you shared deep moments to me seems cold-hearted and neurotic, and this frequently happens with relationships in the U.S.
Taking into account the former points, all you are then left with is:
7. Becoming a PUA
8. Getting really, really rich
9. Only seeing prostitues
10. Masturbating to porn, which is about as satisfying as recieving single drops of water when you're in a parched desert. It helps somewhat with the immediate need, but still leaves you feeling starved and empy.
11. Celibacy (which can cause imbalance unless one fully chooses it as an adjunct to some sort of meditative or religious path)
I'm really happy I found this site, travelling to Europe is now one of my dreams. Thanks Winston!
http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=19
I always hated the idea of having to learn PUA techniques just to get dates and companionship. Even though the behavior of many American women disgusts me, I don't want to play manipulative games and cause needless suffering.
There seem to be precious few options for American guys.
1. Bars and clubs are horrible places to meet girlfriends, they're only really good for one night stand type deals, which can result in emotional harm to both partners, which leads me to my point 2.
2. Being upfront with a girl and telling her you're only interested in no-strings attached, one night type deals is likely to turn many of them off.
3. Approaching people in public is frowned upon.
4. Even people who share your interests, whether meet over the internet or at social functions, may be extremely obese or have emotional imbalances which render them unsuitable partners.
4. Getting married (if you're a man) carries with it the very real risk of losing your children and savings, along with enduring all other sorts of heartache.
5. Telling you're girlfriend you don't want to get married in America is likely to sour the relationship.
6. People eventually growing apart in their romances is to be expected, but outright dumping and shunning someone with whom you shared deep moments to me seems cold-hearted and neurotic, and this frequently happens with relationships in the U.S.
Taking into account the former points, all you are then left with is:
7. Becoming a PUA
8. Getting really, really rich
9. Only seeing prostitues
10. Masturbating to porn, which is about as satisfying as recieving single drops of water when you're in a parched desert. It helps somewhat with the immediate need, but still leaves you feeling starved and empy.
11. Celibacy (which can cause imbalance unless one fully chooses it as an adjunct to some sort of meditative or religious path)
I'm really happy I found this site, travelling to Europe is now one of my dreams. Thanks Winston!