"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why people no more replying to emails or texts(what is the message behinde that ) ?

evan12

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So I noticed there is a new trend (maybe not new for others ) that people don't respond to the text communication unless the answer is "VERY" required and if they do respond the answer usually is the minimum and abstract (no friendly or emotional words ) .

In my opinion people trying to strip the messages from any emotions that it might carry to the receiver, they only want abstract messages and that apply even for friends and men.but why ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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RangerMIke

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I never text... I freaking hate it. I get slammed with text messages all the time and really don't have the time to respond to everything.

I really don't think this "trend" is anymore than people just getting sick of over texting.
 

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People attention is a precious resource in the digital era, you cant expect to have as much as you were used to in the 90s.

Honestly I like more texting than calling for that same reason, a call requires you to cease your activity and focus on that, a text allows you to send your message and get an answer when the other person is ready while at the same time allowing you to read when you want and reply when you want.

Also dont forget that when you receive and send 50 texts a day is nothing special, cant expect the same attention compared to 1999 when you just had that and you probably got 2 or 3.

Our attention span is limited, the more attempt to access it, the more it has to be divided.
 
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