"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why People Break Up

TheHumanist

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KontrollerX said:
"Being Pooker Pan your whole life is in my mind, terribly unsatisfying and I believe detrimental to your health and society's."

If you want the white picket fence package deal complete with screaming brats and government contract turning over half your income to a woman be our guest.

If thats what gets you off thats fine and dandy and it is a normal way of being but the point you are missing is it is simply one of many normal ways of being.

Living a player life of just hittin it and quittin it is completely valid and many MANY people get immense satisfaction from that kind of life just like you will get immense satisfaction from changing sh!tty diapers and listening to your wife b!tch that its time for you to take out the garbage and withhold sex to control you and make you do what she wants.

So yeah turn off the Oprah re-runs for a second and maybe you'll come to the realization that the player life just like the married life is a completely valid and normal way to live.

The player life and learning how to get laid as often as possible is what this forum I'd argue is supposed to be about.

Thats why its named after the ultimate player character in fiction Don Juan.

This forum is not about building relationships or marriage as its primary message.

The primary message is teaching guys how to get laid.

You want a forum thats all about building relationships and marriage primarily go sign up at Loveshack.org.
I have no problem accepting your way of practicing your life. Live and let Live, and do no harm. Well, I recalled you say its okay to lie to get what you want, but I think you don't have to resort to that anyway, so I'll just disagree on that advice.

I do doubt that sosuave primary message is just how to get laid. Many other sosuave members including those who have proven their worth trend to push that they are more than just getting laid. Didn't someone said, "nah, you thinking somethingseduction.com?" At the very least, knowing what you think of loveshack and it is common knowledge here know that it is not a place for any good advice for a life of anything except perhaps misery. Along the other things said, it doesn't sound very accepting of the other paths of life that doesn't involve something similar to yours.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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