"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why People Break Up

TheHumanist

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KontrollerX said:
"Being Pooker Pan your whole life is in my mind, terribly unsatisfying and I believe detrimental to your health and society's."

If you want the white picket fence package deal complete with screaming brats and government contract turning over half your income to a woman be our guest.

If thats what gets you off thats fine and dandy and it is a normal way of being but the point you are missing is it is simply one of many normal ways of being.

Living a player life of just hittin it and quittin it is completely valid and many MANY people get immense satisfaction from that kind of life just like you will get immense satisfaction from changing sh!tty diapers and listening to your wife b!tch that its time for you to take out the garbage and withhold sex to control you and make you do what she wants.

So yeah turn off the Oprah re-runs for a second and maybe you'll come to the realization that the player life just like the married life is a completely valid and normal way to live.

The player life and learning how to get laid as often as possible is what this forum I'd argue is supposed to be about.

Thats why its named after the ultimate player character in fiction Don Juan.

This forum is not about building relationships or marriage as its primary message.

The primary message is teaching guys how to get laid.

You want a forum thats all about building relationships and marriage primarily go sign up at Loveshack.org.
I have no problem accepting your way of practicing your life. Live and let Live, and do no harm. Well, I recalled you say its okay to lie to get what you want, but I think you don't have to resort to that anyway, so I'll just disagree on that advice.

I do doubt that sosuave primary message is just how to get laid. Many other sosuave members including those who have proven their worth trend to push that they are more than just getting laid. Didn't someone said, "nah, you thinking somethingseduction.com?" At the very least, knowing what you think of loveshack and it is common knowledge here know that it is not a place for any good advice for a life of anything except perhaps misery. Along the other things said, it doesn't sound very accepting of the other paths of life that doesn't involve something similar to yours.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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