"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yes there are plenty of FREE dating sites but memberships do have a slightly better clientelle. In the battle of free sites vrs membership fee sites there are pro's and cons in each.

So FOR SAKE OF ARGUMENTS, lets say you decide to try E-harmony/Match or countless others net dating sites. (yes I know net dating is a low form or sarging) ANYWAYS.............how about some money saver tips.

The biggest money saver tip (aside from free sites and electing to real world sarging) is POSTPONEMENT.

Often in dating we here the cliches; "he who hesitiates, masturbates", seize the day, just go for it, stop wasting time. From a marketing point of view THIS PHILOSOPHY DOES NOT APPLY. It would appear the longer you wait, the more save.

These guys want you money ASAP, if they do not get it right away, they lose out. So what do they do.........they send out ENTICEMENTS. At first they boast that you are missing out and send out pictures of super hotties that you could be dating by signing up. After a week or so they take it up a notch and try to seduce you to go for a free trial or some other minimal discount offer. After a month or two they start to pull out the big guns and offer 50-75% off the original price with a timed expiration.

So make a profile but wait to become a paying member.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah, I know what you mean. I recently got a match.com membership for like literallly $4.00 per month for six months - $24.00 spent for a six month's membership, where I can get an additional six months' free on their 'make love happen' guarantee program - so that's ONE YEAR'S MEMBERSHIP FOR
$ 24.00 - I suck so bad at this stupid site that I feel ripped off even spending this money - but hey, I could have been on for one month under normal pricing to check it out and would have to spend $ 35.00 or something like that - of I went on a normal six month plan, it would be something like $ 20.00 a month for six months for a grand total $ 120.00.

Guess how much I saved? 80%. I saved 80% cause I was depressed with my luck with girls online and didn't have any motivation to go on this site and it didn't matter that I was getting these hot babes pictures flashing on that site since I knew they dont reply to my emails no matter what I write and it's a bit waste of time - but when I saw that 80% discount, I said, what the heck, a year for about for less than a cost of a month's membership sounds like a good deal.
 

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Myspace is free. Paid dating sites are known for seeding their profiles with hotties that you will never meet, just to get you to sign up so that you can write the vapor chicks. Yahoo has an open class action lawsuit for just this issue.

Overview

Under the Settlement, an eligible Class Member who was a paid subscriber to Yahoo! Personals between October 1, 2004 and August 3, 2007, and who viewed a profile during his or her subscription period that he or she believes was posted for purposes other than dating, is eligible to receive a one-time payment of up to $35.00 from the four million dollar ($4,000,000) settlement fund.
 

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The only reason I would ever try Match.com is because there's one gorgeous blonde girl on the commercials. But now that I think about it, she's probably just an actor. LOL! Usually hot girls like that aren't found on internet dating sites.
 

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young_gun said:
The only reason I would ever try Match.com is because there's one gorgeous blonde girl on the commercials. But now that I think about it, she's probably just an actor. LOL! Usually hot girls like that aren't found on internet dating sites.
It really becomes obvious when you are searching for chicks in a small town on these sites. You will run into a chick that look like she should be a Hawaiian Tropic model but she is in a small town that you know for a fact that there is no chick there who is under 200lbs.

Also, Accra, Ghana and Lagos, Nigeria seem to bot be hot spots for stranded super hot Caucasian models.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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