"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yes there are plenty of FREE dating sites but memberships do have a slightly better clientelle. In the battle of free sites vrs membership fee sites there are pro's and cons in each.

So FOR SAKE OF ARGUMENTS, lets say you decide to try E-harmony/Match or countless others net dating sites. (yes I know net dating is a low form or sarging) ANYWAYS.............how about some money saver tips.

The biggest money saver tip (aside from free sites and electing to real world sarging) is POSTPONEMENT.

Often in dating we here the cliches; "he who hesitiates, masturbates", seize the day, just go for it, stop wasting time. From a marketing point of view THIS PHILOSOPHY DOES NOT APPLY. It would appear the longer you wait, the more save.

These guys want you money ASAP, if they do not get it right away, they lose out. So what do they do.........they send out ENTICEMENTS. At first they boast that you are missing out and send out pictures of super hotties that you could be dating by signing up. After a week or so they take it up a notch and try to seduce you to go for a free trial or some other minimal discount offer. After a month or two they start to pull out the big guns and offer 50-75% off the original price with a timed expiration.

So make a profile but wait to become a paying member.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, I know what you mean. I recently got a match.com membership for like literallly $4.00 per month for six months - $24.00 spent for a six month's membership, where I can get an additional six months' free on their 'make love happen' guarantee program - so that's ONE YEAR'S MEMBERSHIP FOR
$ 24.00 - I suck so bad at this stupid site that I feel ripped off even spending this money - but hey, I could have been on for one month under normal pricing to check it out and would have to spend $ 35.00 or something like that - of I went on a normal six month plan, it would be something like $ 20.00 a month for six months for a grand total $ 120.00.

Guess how much I saved? 80%. I saved 80% cause I was depressed with my luck with girls online and didn't have any motivation to go on this site and it didn't matter that I was getting these hot babes pictures flashing on that site since I knew they dont reply to my emails no matter what I write and it's a bit waste of time - but when I saw that 80% discount, I said, what the heck, a year for about for less than a cost of a month's membership sounds like a good deal.
 

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Myspace is free. Paid dating sites are known for seeding their profiles with hotties that you will never meet, just to get you to sign up so that you can write the vapor chicks. Yahoo has an open class action lawsuit for just this issue.

Overview

Under the Settlement, an eligible Class Member who was a paid subscriber to Yahoo! Personals between October 1, 2004 and August 3, 2007, and who viewed a profile during his or her subscription period that he or she believes was posted for purposes other than dating, is eligible to receive a one-time payment of up to $35.00 from the four million dollar ($4,000,000) settlement fund.
 

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The only reason I would ever try Match.com is because there's one gorgeous blonde girl on the commercials. But now that I think about it, she's probably just an actor. LOL! Usually hot girls like that aren't found on internet dating sites.
 

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young_gun said:
The only reason I would ever try Match.com is because there's one gorgeous blonde girl on the commercials. But now that I think about it, she's probably just an actor. LOL! Usually hot girls like that aren't found on internet dating sites.
It really becomes obvious when you are searching for chicks in a small town on these sites. You will run into a chick that look like she should be a Hawaiian Tropic model but she is in a small town that you know for a fact that there is no chick there who is under 200lbs.

Also, Accra, Ghana and Lagos, Nigeria seem to bot be hot spots for stranded super hot Caucasian models.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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