"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why or how come she is nice to me?

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Yeah, belivie or not, I'm not use to nice girls. (if that even exist)

There is this girl at work that is super nice to me and from time to time she will tell me how crazy things will be/get in bed.

My question is, how come she is so nice? I haven't done anything to "work" for her. It's like shes throwing her ***** at my face and instead of me taking it, I get suspicious instead.

I'm not saying she is perfect, she told me storys about how much she ****s around and so on, but as you guys can tell, shes honest about it.

Thoughts?

Why would a girl be nice in the first place?

I see her being a ***** to others.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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overthinking

If you get a hard from her, try her. But please stop thinking about her when you are not with her.

Let the world around you just happen.

Even if she is just playing with you. When you go for it she will either take it or leave it.
 
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Talking about how many c0cks she's riding wouldn't immediately make me think she's being nice to me. WTF?
She's another casualty of feminism who think that to be equal, she has to fvck around and talk about it like men do.
Don't fool yourself with this one. She's using you to validate her slvttishness. Just laugh and say something like: "Wow, that's crazy" and either change the subject or (my strongest tip) walk away.
Fvck her if you must, but don't put her on a pedestal.
 
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Dear Beyond Earth,
Be very careful about screwing around at work,very easy to be targeted if she gets upset with you...They will always believe her!...If after consideration you still want go ahead then she can only ever be a Plate....Always use prorection and don't get too emotionally involved!
 
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Scaramouche said:
Dear Beyond Earth,
Be very careful about screwing around at work,very easy to be targeted if she gets upset with you...They will always believe her!...If after consideration you still want go ahead then she can only ever be a Plate....Always use prorection and don't get too emotionally involved!
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I banged a girl at work. I pissed her off because she found out I was a player. I got laid off in the first round of cuts.

That's what happens when you sh!t where you eat.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i hate to say it but im so used to women being unfriendly that i get very suspicious, even angry if one of them is nice to me or shows me an IOI these days, its so shocking and out of the ordinary to me, just cant bring myself to believe a woman could genuinely be interested in me as a human being, i cant make myself believe it no matter how hard i try
 
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